Errr, so you have had this puppy for 3 days right???
I recognise that, I am talking about her general temperament as we are getting to know her and as she settles in.She is probably overwhelmed by the change and by leaving her mum and siblings. Give her a chance to settle in and build her confidence.
A few questions:
How old are your children?
5, 8 and 10Have you taught them to leave her in peace when she is quiet and needs to rest or when she is eating?
YesDoes she have a pen/crate or other safe, den like space where she can chill?
YesIs she having plenty of sleep and rest time when you and your kids leave her to sleep? Pups that age sleep A LOT!
YesGive her space, plenty of rest time and GENTLE and calm interaction and play. Let her come out of her shell in her own time and I am sure she will become more confident in time.
I am just asking for advice exactly HOW to do that. I don't want to push her and I figured if there are ways of doing this "the right way".Believe me, you will be happy to have a calm pup when you read some of the posts on here from people with children who realise that small children and pups can be a nightmare combination
There have been cases of people whose kids spent the first few weeks sitting on the back of the sofa to get away from the biting whirling dervish of a pup. Be careful what you wish for - a pup is not a toy, and they are all different. Very few of us have ended up with exactly what we had imagined when we got our pups, especially if not experienced with dogs.
My kids are rather confident and sensible in general and very much so around animals. I wouldn't let them get in to that situation OR treat any animal like a toy. That goes without saying.You have your pup now and it is up to you to do the best for her. If she is a bit timid and quiet, then you just need to be patient and let her develop in her own time.
Yes, I want to do what's best for her which is why I asked for advice here.Now, stop worrying (pups will pick up on it) and enjoy your pup - the puppy stage will be over before you know it and you will wonder what you worried about
I am not worried to that extent so that it would affect her but as a first time dog owner (myself, not my husband who isn't worried about this) I felt the need to consult experienced dog owners and cocker spaniel friends. I guess that is what this forum is for. We love Ela regardless of her temperament and enjoy her fully but as we found ourselves in a situation we had not expected or prepared for, I felt the need to change approach. I had expected a devil puppy and had prepared myself for that. Not a timid one and I am just trying to understand what I need to do for her now.We had her Vet checked on Friday and he was happy with her so that's good.
Thank you for your advice.