Yeah - looking back perhaps common sense would have told me this wasn't a good method, poor old Ben being our first cocker he probably got lots of 'dodgy' treatment, tips from well meaning people who knew how to handle dogs?
When Ben was little I was surprised by the amount of people who still think you a should show a dog who is boss, and the most surprising people said to me 'if he was mine I'd give him a good hiding that'll stop him'
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Fortunatly we never smacked Ben,actually I tell a lie I once smacked his bum when we had laid a new lawn and he pulled it all up and ran round the garden with turf hanging from his mouth (I was devastated - about smacking him not the lawn!)
Like other people have said as soon as we found out about NILIF our problems were solved.
Its a strange old world when people think you have to resort to force to master a small furry animal.
Ben's mum