We are having family to visit for a day this week that we haven't seen for a few tears.
To be precise they are my BIL, his wife and 3 teenage girls.
They are very animal friendly, but I am dreading Honey's reaction.
Having read many of the threads on here recently, I am convinced that her reactions are fear - but it is really embarassing. Especially when you have children who ahve behaviours which can sometimes be challenging and an extremely antisocial rescue cat. It makes us all seem very dysfunctional
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She will bark constantly when they come to visit. If they move she will bark, if they talkk to her on anything other than her terms she will bark, if there is food around (which there will be) she will growl at them, and if they come near me she will bark. She will be all over me (for reassurance) - trying to get on my knee and pawing at me - but she won#t take her eyes off them.
They will all think she is badly behaved (my aunt keeps telling me how frightened she is of Honey), but the reality is, I think, she is anxious and wary.
Please someone tell me I am right in believing this and how do I convince others that is what is wrong with her?