hiya thanks for all the replys, i was getting a lump in my throat as i read about alfie
anyway after this mornings episode with max i think my hubby will never walk him again, he let him off the lead to play with a stick and max just ran off and would not come back, alan rung for me to go over and help him catch him
when i arrived max was being his usual self just running around eating everything in sight
he wouldnt come to me untill he had finished what he was eating.
i have 2 dogs as you know and i trained ellie exactually the same as i tried with max, ellie is the perfect dog, never on a lead, even by the roads, respondes to every word i say, and so on
i dont feel it is anything to do with my tecniques or my failiure in training max as if it was me at fault ellie wouldnt be the well behaved dog she is, i feel it is max and that is how he is going to be
i dont want to loose my husband but i also do not want to loose my dog, im crying as i write this, as im sleeping downstairs tonight as we are still not speaking
im stuck between a rock & a hard place..............
the sleeping thing with max was going good, i work 4 nights a week so max and ellie sleep in the kitchen and he does not hear a peep out of him, but on my 3 nights off when i sleep upstairs max barks thru the night, obviously he cant be left to do this as we are mid terrace and my neighbours both sides have moaned about him, specially as he barks during the day when im out too
we have tried leaving him, telling him off putting him on his bed and so on but he just starts barking again and again
this is just one of the many things that max gets up too so when you are faced with all of it being a complete mess it is so dissheartning