Hi all,
I am making a request for help for a friend of mine who's having problems with her 17 month old Tri Cocker.
Situation = household of 5, Mum/Dad Boy aged 12 Girl aged 9 and Boy 6.
They have been trying so hard with Archie and now I think they are at their wits end and I can see that the boy will end up in rescue or put down if they don't receive help.
Basically, he was a bit of a handful as a pup and I did warn the mum then that she needed to toughen up, (she's soft with her children too!), he has seemed OK/manageable until the last 3 months. He has taken to nipping at the children and growling, which has now turned into almost attacks for no apparant reason. I have tried to explain that they need to demote him and take away priviledges but I don't think mum is strong enough to follow it through. They chose not to use a crate (against my advice) when he was a pup wanting him to have run of the house. Well he's got exactly that now.
She's been to the vet and he confirmed that he is otherwise fit and healthy, the vet has worried her and said that he is past his teenage years and should have grown out of such behaviour, (not sure I agree with this, for Cockers). I have spent time with Archie and he is a beautiful and strong willed dog, and unfortunately they are a lovely friendly but soft family, who have loved the cuddly puppy stage but are now bored with their boy and can't understand why he doesn't behave like an adult.
I feel I can get him sorted but I have my own dog and her pups to consider and wouldn't take him on whilst they are still with me. He needs some strong handling and they need to build up some confidence with him as now everytime they feed/pet/handle Archie he growls and they back off with fear.!!! I tried to explain that the growling should be ignored, lots of dogs growl but because he has bitten the eldest boy (although I think he was probably provoked to some extent) they all fear him, but don't seem to want to follow the advice given to them as they think it would be too cruel. The vet is suggesting medication if the situation doesn't improve and they don't want to go down that route and will probably
have him rehomed or sadly put down.
Can anyone offer some help, they do love him but maybe too much and not for his own good. I'm very frustrated with them, is there information they can read or someone who might be able to take on the dog, train him so that they can still keep Archie. Sorry to sound desperate, but I think its just down to the handling.