Aww J I have only just seen this how awful for you. I am so sorry the boys are not getting along it must be heartbreaking. I do hope that someone can help you work through this with your lads and it has a positive outcome. You are certainly doing everything you can to ease the situation. My 2 girlies sometimes don't get along but its always a lot of noise and not much else I usually let them get on with it and sort it themselves, I stepped in once and it made it worse but like I say its just noise with my 2 a lot of growling and then Bella pins Jazzy to the floor and they get bored and its over. I do really feel for you J, you have 2 beautiful boys there its such a shame.