Thanks to all for the recommendations.
I feel a bit better now after hearing that there are cocker groomers out there. I was never going to get him groomed again, thats how bad I felt. I certainly will follow these leads for groomers for the next time, when I pluck up the courage, however it will be a long time until his coat gets to the unmanagable stage as its very short. I want to cry every time I look at him. Wish it was next month at this time and his golden locks are back.
Thanks for your support as Im new to the forum and have never had a cocker before.