Was your cat always a bit 'anti-social', for want of a better word, Fran? If so, that's her basic personality, and there might not be much you can do except live with it, and keep the cat as much as possible out of Suzie's way. Some cats are just like that
I've got two cats, both were here before either of the dogs. Manoon the eldest could be considered 'anti-social', since she walks through the house hissing and grumbling at the other cat and the dogs - it;s as if she's saying "dont even bother, talk to the hand!"
She always was that way though. The other cat, on the other hand, sleeps and plays with the dogs as if she were one herself.
By the way, Manoon is my favourite... what does that say about me?!
In fact, here she is... (excuse the dribble
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