It is difficult to be patient with you but do take a look at the good breeder guidelines from this site. COL isn't elitist, just responsible and the free advice you have asked for (and been given) from such experienced people is not to be taken for granted. [/quote
It wasn't the OP who felt some of the replies were elitist....
I do agree with most of what has been said - there are a good number of responsible breeders in the Cocker world who have been working hard to breed out genetic illnesses etc. while most Backyard breeders wouldn't even know if their dog carried the gene for these illnesses.
Honey is a mix - and she is ideal for us, and I wouldn't change her for the world.
But I now know enough to know we were very lucky - we didn't know about working cockers, and the breeder did not mention the mix in her breeding at all - without this site, we may well have struggled immensely!
In an ideal world, if we were to get another dog, I would love another worker/show mix - however I would be far more clued up on wanting to know why the mix was being made, that all the health tests were done etc. And I think it is unlikely I would find the answers I wanted! There are always going to be people who breed for the pet market - I know this feels wrong when there are so many unwanted dogs in rescue, but I really don't think this is going to change - this isn't so bad if they take their breeding responsibly (tested parents, life-long support to purchasers) - however most people breeding "pets" don't do these tests, which risks continuing the genetic illnesses into future generations.
I know a lot of people feel very strongly that no pet breeding should be allowed (and I'm sure if I was more involved in rescues, I would have similar views) - but at the very least anyone who is pet breeding (whether this is creating a worker/show mix, a cockerpoo or a Heinz 57 mongrel) should be as thorough in checking everything as the breeders who breed for conformity to breed standard (along with temperament, health etc).