Our Jem is being spayed on the same day, so we will be going through the worry together! I'm dreading it too, although it is the third time I've had a girlie spayed and Cassie and Ruby were both fine, in fact it was more of a job keeping them quiet!
I am also thinking of sleeping downstairs with Jem, because she normally sleeps in her bed in our room but she obviously shouldn't be climbing the stairs, but I think it might hurt her if we carried her too.
Fingers crossed for Roxy and Jem then!