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Offline ejp

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #45 on: November 30, 2015, 06:53:06 PM »
The greatest gift you can ever give, and being wrapped in love for the next part of your journey is a precious thing. x

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #46 on: November 30, 2015, 07:12:48 PM »
My thoughts, and the thoughts of my family, are with you and Fergus.

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #47 on: November 30, 2015, 07:46:27 PM »
Thinking of you and your super boy Fergus.
I hope this poem may help you.

May I Go?
May I gone now?
Do you think the time is right?
May I say goodbye to pain filled days
and endless lonely nights?
I've lived my life and done my best,
an example tried to be,
So can I take that step beyond
and set my spirit free?
I didn't want to go at first,
I fought with all my might
But something seems to draw me now
to a warm and living light.
I want to go, I really do, It's difficult to stay.
But I will try as best I can to live
just one more day.
To give you time to care for me and share
your love and fears
I know you're sad and afraid because I see your tears.
I 'll not be far, I promise that, and hope you'll
always know that my spirit will be close to you wherever you may go.
Thank you so much for loving me,
You know I love you too,
That's why it's hard to say goodbye and
end this life with you.
So hold me now just one more time and
let me hear you say,because you care so much for me
You'll let me go today.

Thinking of you with love

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #48 on: November 30, 2015, 07:50:19 PM »
That's so lovely.

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #49 on: November 30, 2015, 09:24:08 PM »
You are doing the bravest thing you can do to for your pet. There's never a right, or good time to say goodbye. A week on for me, it's still tough, but the fog is starting to lift. I'm trying to take comfort from the happy memories that we shared, and trying to forget the final few months when my boy went downhill.
Hoping you have a good night together and lots of cuddles. Thinking of you and your best friend.


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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #50 on: November 30, 2015, 11:37:36 PM »
My heart goes out to you.

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #51 on: December 01, 2015, 07:37:44 AM »
 :bigarmhug:
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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #52 on: December 01, 2015, 09:25:31 AM »
Sending lots of  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:  Having lost two furry friends in two years (the last being only 3 weeks ago), I feel your pain.  Remember the good times and know you've given him everything  :luv:
Both taken away from us far too soon. x  RIP Angels Odie & Archie, causing mayhem at the Rainbow, no doubt!

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #53 on: December 01, 2015, 10:24:31 AM »
It's so hard knowing when to let go and sometimes it takes an outsider to help you see things as they really are as we're so blinded by the love for our pets. So sorry for the decision you're having to make.

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #54 on: December 01, 2015, 10:39:08 AM »
I cannot find words to say other than you are so much in my thoughts today

Juliex
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You are always with me darlings Jaypup and my precious Oliver you are so missed

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #55 on: December 01, 2015, 10:59:04 AM »
Sat here thinking of you wish I too could find the words that would help
 
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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #56 on: December 01, 2015, 12:30:27 PM »
Thinking of you and my heart goes out to you today 

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #57 on: December 01, 2015, 01:07:56 PM »
So very sorry  :luv:
Remembering Smudge 23/11/2006 - 3/8/2013, and Branston 30/8/14 - 28/10/22 both now at the Bridge.

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #58 on: December 01, 2015, 02:45:37 PM »
Sending you  :bigarmhug:'s at what is such a very hard time.  I hope with time you're able to recall all those fantastic times you had with Fergus with smiles rather than the heaviness in your heart you will feel now. He sounds like an incredibly special lad and had the best time with you  :luv:
 And I'm glad you found COL as well - there are so many people here who understand only too well how much these crazy long-eared little dogs come to mean to us all.... and what a hole in our lives they leave.  Be kind to yourself and anytime you want to talk about your boy, someone will always be here.
Thinking of you today.
Lisa xx
Lisa & Maggie x

One reason a dog can be such a comfort when you're feeling blue is that he doesn't try to find out why.  ~Author Unknown

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Re: Really Struggling
« Reply #59 on: December 01, 2015, 05:00:09 PM »
Thinking of you today. :bigarmhug: