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Offline leahshafi

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I lost my baby :(
« on: September 12, 2011, 12:26:43 PM »
Good Afternoon Everyone,

I lost my beautiful Lola last week. I haven't been online for some time. But I know that those of you that met her, would know that she was a happy little dog. She was only 7, and died of kidney damage after contracting Peritonitis from an operation 2 weeks ago.
My family and friends have been great, But I feel empty and alone. You all must know how I feel as you are all Cocker lovers, and you know how they enrich your lives.

Is there any advice that you can give that will help me. I am truly devastated.

Leah x

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Re: I lost my baby :(
« Reply #1 on: September 12, 2011, 12:30:05 PM »
I'm really sorry.  No other words I say will help stop how you're feeling so I'll simply say that I'm thinking of you.

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« Reply #2 on: September 12, 2011, 12:32:18 PM »
I'm to am really sorry to hear of your sad lost... :bigarmhug:





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« Reply #3 on: September 12, 2011, 12:36:06 PM »
Oh Leah, if only I had a magic wand to take away your pain :'( I would wave it in an instant. I truly know how you feel Hun as I only lost my dear Pebbles 7 months ago  :'(. You need time to grieve  :'(  everything is still very raw for you right now and there are lots of every day things that will remind you of her. Even now I still cry for my girls  :'( and I lost my Poppy over 2 years ago. I don't think you ever get over losing them you just adjust to life with out them :'(. We are all here for you on COL we will help you all we can you are NOT alone Hun.
If you ever just want to talk PM me and I will let you have my phone no take care  :luv: :luv: :luv: love Dianne x x x


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Re: I lost my baby :(
« Reply #4 on: September 12, 2011, 12:41:06 PM »
I am so very sorry, no words can really help - I am sure in time you will start to remember all the lovely things you did together, and will be able to enjoy your memories and know she had a very happy life with you.
Hugs, Carolyn x

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« Reply #5 on: September 12, 2011, 12:47:06 PM »
So sorry for your loss Run pain free at the Bridge Lola



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« Reply #6 on: September 12, 2011, 12:47:21 PM »
So sorry    :'(
I know the pain you are feeling right now, but your  Lola was such a lucky girl  to have such a wonderful mum
sending you lots of hugs  :bigarmhug:you must focus on all the lovely memories you will have of her
 Thinking of you  :luv:

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« Reply #7 on: September 12, 2011, 12:51:05 PM »
That's such sad news. I'm so sorry Leah  :bigarmhug:.  I wish there was something I could say to take the pain away :'(. Just try to take one day at a time.  

As Dianne says, remember, you are not alone. We are all here for you. My love to you and family. Big hugs for you all. x

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« Reply #8 on: September 12, 2011, 12:54:26 PM »
Aw Leah I'm so sorry your
little Lola :luv:has gone :'(
You gave her a new life and
all the love a little doggie
could want!
Run free Lola
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« Reply #9 on: September 12, 2011, 01:05:38 PM »
I,m so sorry for your sad loss, it's such an "empty" feeling  they leave such a void in our hearts and lives when they go.
I made a photo collage when I lost my boy seeing him in various pictures although was sad made me remember the fun and love he gave me. I also have a little area in my garden which I have planted a dog wood bush where his ashes are buried. R.I.P Lola fun free at the bridge.



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« Reply #10 on: September 12, 2011, 01:20:55 PM »
So sorry for your loss  :bigarmhug:

Run free little Lola  :luv:

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« Reply #11 on: September 12, 2011, 01:24:13 PM »
I am so sorry  :'(

Sweet dreams Lola  :luv:
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« Reply #12 on: September 12, 2011, 01:25:25 PM »
Aww my heart goes out to you :(
As with all these things unfortunately only time will heal it....
I cannot imagine how devastated you must be

Much love and Cocker Kisses from Charlene and Diesel xx

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Re: I lost my baby :(
« Reply #13 on: September 12, 2011, 01:27:25 PM »
So sorry for your loss. How did she get peritonitis? Was the op routine or an emergency?

Thinking of you. :'(
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« Reply #14 on: September 12, 2011, 01:29:31 PM »
So sorry for your loss.  If only our animals could live as long as we do.  Try to focus on the happy memories, of which I am sure there are lots.

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