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Offline LindaJ

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Re: Please pray for Darwin - I am a survivor
« Reply #210 on: July 17, 2017, 11:35:26 PM »
Hi I haven't been online for some time so have only just read about Darwin and just wanted to share my experiences. My Charlie has IVDD. He slipped a disc in January 2014 when he was 7. He recovered well after a blip in surgery but then had another operation in May 2015 which didn't go to plan and when I brought him home his back legs were paralysed and he was doubly incontinent. Well my boy is a survivor too. He is 11 now, still incontinent but gradually regained movement in his back legs although his left leg doesn't bend. He gets about in the house and garden albeit clumsily. I don't know if his left leg spinal walks or how much control he has of it but he manages. To go out on a walk he uses wheels which have been a godsend. We are just back from Norfolk. Another beach holiday cos he loves the sea. He went in the sea in his wheels and pottered on the beach. As long as he still has his personality and quality of life we will keep going although I find it hard cos we do have to deal with his toileting every 5 hours during the day and don't have anyone on hand to give us a break. He never went in kennels so I wouldn't want to stress him out now. I do however count every day as a blessing as I really thought we had lost him May 2015. If there is any way I can help please let me know. xx

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Re: Please pray for Darwin - I am a survivor
« Reply #211 on: July 18, 2017, 12:42:59 AM »
That is a good update for Darwin. Glad he is enjoying his sunbathing and continues to be happy. Xx

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Re: Please pray for Darwin - I am a survivor
« Reply #212 on: July 18, 2017, 12:47:51 AM »
So happy to read your lovely update, pleased he is doing so well  :luv:
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Re: Please pray for Darwin - I am a survivor
« Reply #213 on: July 18, 2017, 07:05:59 AM »
That's such a lovely update . I'm sure its not easy for you but you're obviously doing a wonderful job and seeing Darwin still able to enjoy his life must make it all worth while. All the best for you and cuddles for Darwin!  :luv:

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Re: Please pray for Darwin - I am a survivor
« Reply #214 on: July 18, 2017, 04:57:33 PM »
Hi I haven't been online for some time so have only just read about Darwin and just wanted to share my experiences. My Charlie has IVDD. He slipped a disc in January 2014 when he was 7. He recovered well after a blip in surgery but then had another operation in May 2015 which didn't go to plan and when I brought him home his back legs were paralysed and he was doubly incontinent. Well my boy is a survivor too. He is 11 now, still incontinent but gradually regained movement in his back legs although his left leg doesn't bend. He gets about in the house and garden albeit clumsily. I don't know if his left leg spinal walks or how much control he has of it but he manages. To go out on a walk he uses wheels which have been a godsend. We are just back from Norfolk. Another beach holiday cos he loves the sea. He went in the sea in his wheels and pottered on the beach. As long as he still has his personality and quality of life we will keep going although I find it hard cos we do have to deal with his toileting every 5 hours during the day and don't have anyone on hand to give us a break. He never went in kennels so I wouldn't want to stress him out now. I do however count every day as a blessing as I really thought we had lost him May 2015. If there is any way I can help please let me know. xx


Thank you for your post. It means so much that's there someone else who understand the issuing with caring for a dog with IVDD.

Every now and again either OH or I finds it difficult to cope. It's OH turn this week. He was working from home yesterday and by 7.30am he was cleaning up for the 2nd time so nit a good start to a Monday.

Please can you post some photos of Charlie with his wheels. I know everyone would love to see how well Charlie is coping.  What make are they etc.  We're not at that stage yet but it worth knowing what wheels work best for Cockers.

I would  love to get Darwin back on a beach, but since his op is car journeys have been quite short. One mile up the road to the vets/kennels/ groomers or the 5 miles to the RVC.  He use to love Burgh Island etc in South Devon as we use to spend all our holidays in Devon.  But Hertfordshire is a bit land locked so no decent beaches near by.

We keep trying to set yourselves and Darwin little goals.  The first was for him to be ok to go into kennels so I could have a day out at Chelsea Flower show. Darwin enjoyed his stay and OH and I had a wonderful day.

The 2nd goal was for Darwin to be Ok until our son finished his A Levels exams. We had a little scare the day before the final exam. As Darwin yelped with pain, dragged himself outside and collapsed. I really thought that was it, was getting prepared to make phone calls and to get Darwin up to the Vets. Don't know what Darwin had done but within 10mins and with the aid of a few very smelly treats Darwin was mobile again. It has effected him, but his leg is a bit stiffer and he's a bit more wobbly.

Trying to think of the next couple if goals.  One will be to enjoy his last summer with my son at home, but that's guaranteed and the next will be helping Darwin adjust to our son leaving home, as they have a wonderfully close bond. Hopefully Darwin will be Ok for another brief stay in kennels as we would all love at least one night away the end of the summer.

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Re: Please pray for Darwin - I am a survivor
« Reply #215 on: July 19, 2017, 08:47:46 AM »
My last Cocker, Rosie, also had IVDD - she had two surgeries. 

It's heartbreaking to have a crazy, happy Cocker and in a split second find she has hind limb paralysis and needs emergency surgery. 

The after care is difficult for the dog and owner and absorbs every minute of every day - I was on my own caring for Rosie and I just felt totally exhausted most of the time due to lack of sleep as I would wake constantly at the slightest sound.

I got a special harness for Rosie, instead of a towel under the tummy - her back legs went in each side of this harness and then a strap enabled me to hold her rear end at the correct level for her to walk (using just her front legs and then all four legs when able to do so) - I took her to the beach using this harness and she walked her usual route sniffing all the way.       

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Re: Please pray for Darwin - I am a survivor
« Reply #216 on: July 23, 2017, 10:42:46 PM »
Hi I am the same as you, small goals as you never know what is round the corner. I emailed a local kennel after reading about Darwin going into kennels just to see if it was at all a possibility for a short break. they declined but suggested I advertise on gumtree for a vet nurse or ask the nurses at my vets if they would be willing to provide short term care for him.
Anyway I was just asking to see if it was a possibility.  Have tried to post a photo of Charlie in his wheels. He wouldn't be able to go out for a walk without them. We got them from www.wheels4dogs.co.uk. Another website that has been invaluable is dodgerslist.com. The wheels, the bellybands and the wet mats have been our most helpful purchases

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Re: Please pray for Darwin - I am a survivor
« Reply #217 on: July 24, 2017, 03:14:19 PM »
Lovely to see the photo Charlie  :luv:  He looks so happy

We're very lucky with our kennels. It's expensive but they're wonderful and more important Darwin is happy going there and they fully understand his issues. One of the kennel staff does grooming and she's worked wonders on Darwin as he coat was in such a mess.

Hope you find someone to look after Charlie so you can have a little break.

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Re: Please pray for Darwin - Update June 18
« Reply #218 on: June 18, 2018, 04:56:10 PM »
It's now nearly a year since I've posted an update on Darwin and in August it'll be 2 and 1/2 years since his spinal op. Doesn't time fly!

We're just back from my first holiday since Darwin has been ill, earlier this year we realised that since Darwin had been ill I hadn't had a single night away from home, so we treated ourselves to 5 nights at a luxury resort in Sardinia ( absolutely bliss) and Darwin enjoyed an eight day break in kennels

During the autum/winter he seemed to struggle but part of that was he was really missing my son, whose just finishing his first year at Uni. If you ask Darwin where is my son, he'll go and sit at the bottom of the stairs and look upstairs.   :luv:

Since the start of the year we've been slowly building up on Darwin's stays at kennels, which have enabled us to have a few day trips ( and also gave me a rest after a serious hand injury).  Darwin has always loved our local kennels.  Also as the weather has improved he's been much happier.  All he really wants to do is spend his time sunbathing and taking the contents of his toy box outside

We still stick to a very rigid routine of 3 ten mins pavement walks, at set times, which seems to work and helps us mange his bowels, as he's got little control due to nerve damage.  He's not particularly good when he meets other dogs, but that is only to be expected as for over 2 years he's not had the opportunity to socialise with any dogs.

We recently had our first vet visit in 10months, our vet was very impressed with Darwin, he hadn't expected him to be doing do so well, Yes his posture isn't good( he has a curve to his back ) and at times he will bunny hop. But most importantly his foot placement is good and we're successful managing his pain.

I'll post a couple of photos of Darwin later

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Lovely update, so pleased things are going well for Darwin and yourselves  :luv:
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So glad to hear Darwin‘s doing well and still enjoying life! You‘ve obviously done a great job caring for him! Looking forward to seeing photos.  :bigarmhug: to Darwin!

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That is a good update, and all credit to you and your family for your dedication to Darwin  :luv: 

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Bless him, hope things continue to go well for a long time yet.

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 :luv: what a handsome lad you are Darwin!