With many things you can find the level of toxicity by googling, but it would be nice to see it reflected in a list.
Toxic doses of theobromine is pretty easy to calculate, a quick google search will even give you calculators that do it for you. A small piece of milk chocolate will usually be harmless, but dark chocolate contains much more cocoa and dogs will reach toxic dose much more easily. My dog managed to eat enough chocolate that it would likely have killed her without treatment (one 100g plate of dark chocolate). She had neurological symptoms, it was very scary!
Ethylene glycol is toxic for all animals, including us. I've luckily never seen a dog or cat get poisoned by it. But I've seen the results on histological slides of kidneys and it is bad! I did a google search and found out that the lethal dose for a dog is 4,4ml/kg, but that is the lethal dose, toxic dose will be even less.
I too get really annoyed with lists that don't show any indication of degree of toxicity. Like the food lists for dog. They are pages long when in reality, unless the dog ingests huge amounts, you only have to be concerned about a handful of things. It would be nice if they could give us categories like "not ideal, expect diarrhoea if they eat it" and "straight to vet in panic mode if they lick it".
I am completely clueless on decorative plants, so I just assume all of them are toxc