Hi Bobndot your post has been really encouraging. I got him a kong last week, and up to now he appears to like it, and hasnt as yet destroyed it. This is a black extra strong one, so im hoping it does what it says on the label.
Gillie loves lying beside me, while im on my computer, with his head on my shoulder, but it doesnt last for more than 10 minutes at a time, and then hes off and exploring somewhere else.
I know exactly what you mean about the teenager stroppiness and your right, when he is in the garden, he used to come as soon as i called, but now he comes right up to the door, then runs away again. Which in this freezing weather isnt exactly an endearing trait, i dont know if im doing right or wrong, but im not going out to chase him in, so i just shut the door, and let him in when im ready to. He loves the garden and enjoys fleeing around it, (my shrubs are decimaated lol) and in this snow we have recently had, he thinks its great fun, to roll in it and then dive straight on the sofa whilst still dripping wet.
Im going to return the halti collar i bought and hopefully the shop may allow me to exchange it for a harness, although the last harness i bought for him for the car, he chewed off in about 5 minutes of me putting him on the back seat.
Ive had to reinforce the extending lead with chain, because he just chewed threw the nylon bit at the beginning, of it, although i am not at the moment using it at all, because i am trying to get him used to the short lead.
Thanks everybody for your input its most helpful