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Title: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: pipkoi on August 22, 2010, 08:15:30 PM
Our beloved Toby has not been doing so well the last 36 hours or so.  :'( He seems to have gone blind and is crashing into everything. He is also not so keen to go out for his walk but he is eating, drinking and all ablutions are still OK.
We have been building ourselves up for this time for a long time, but fear that it is looming quickly. The added concern we have is that we are all going on holiday on Saturday and were concerned h ow he would cope, but now, if he has gone permanently blind - how on earth will he cope.
We just don't know what to do :huh:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: spanielcrazy on August 22, 2010, 08:22:50 PM
Go to the vet. Blindness is generally not sudden, so there may be something that can be done or needs to be addressed now.

Sending lots of positive thoughts for Toby and you :bigarmhug: 
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: pipkoi on August 22, 2010, 08:29:56 PM
Sorry I should have been clearer. His eyes have not been good for some time. His 3rd eye lid is often over his eyes and we have not been sure how he is still seeing but he has been. They don't actually look any different but he is obviously struggling :'(
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: lindseyp on August 22, 2010, 08:30:43 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about Toby, Pip  & thinking of you all  :lol2:
Can't really help as to regards the holiday .... I think it may be a personal decision you have to make nearer the time. Sorry i can't be more help but send you lots of caring :bigarmhug:'s for you & Toby anyway

(we moved recently & worried terribly for Tinker but in the end, she was the one, who adjusted to the changes the best. However when we went on holiday to The Lakes we didn't take her with us, as we would be out & about a lot. We thought that would be asking too much from her  :-\  )
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: suzysu on August 22, 2010, 08:35:12 PM
Aww poor Toby, sending lots of healing hugs  :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Countrygirl on August 22, 2010, 08:50:12 PM
Aww poor Toby, sending lots of healing hugs  :luv:
Sending lots from me to.
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: JaspersMum on August 22, 2010, 09:17:39 PM
Thinking of you, hope Toby rallies round to be able to come with you
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: mezzaj on August 22, 2010, 09:34:40 PM
Sending lots of healing hugs  :bigarmhug: to Toby from me and Lucy  :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Pop-Star on August 22, 2010, 10:21:06 PM
Aww poor Toby, sending lots of healing hugs  :luv:
Sending lots from me to.
and lots from me too  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Rats and Dogs on August 22, 2010, 10:29:07 PM
Only you will know if you should go on holiday and leave Toby, is someone coming in to look after him in your home? if so, then I wouldn't worry too much, as he will cope fine in his own home, he will gradually get used to the layout of the house and will manage fine, as long as no one changes it.

Don't panic too much. dogs cope much better than we do with things, and he will soon get used to everything, as long as you all talk to him as normal and make things easy for him to get around the house and to find his water, food, bed, etc. :D

Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Jeanette on August 23, 2010, 07:42:41 AM
Thinking of you, hope Toby rallies round to be able to come with you
From me too   :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Eve on August 23, 2010, 07:45:22 AM
All we can do toward the end is to let them know how much we love them but I'm sure you are doing this already.

Eve
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Black Red + Yellow on August 23, 2010, 08:17:02 AM
O they just break your heart don't they....the worst part is not knowing exactly how they are feeling....makes us Mums and Dads feel kinda useless :'(

Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Holly Berry on August 23, 2010, 08:30:02 AM
Poor Toby, hopefully he will be able cope a little better each day as he comes to terms with not being able to see. Sorry not sure whether he was going with you or staying at home, but whatever happens sending you lots of  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: marbledmolly on August 23, 2010, 09:52:10 AM
Poor Toby  :luv:  I hope you are all ok  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Max X 2 on August 23, 2010, 10:12:58 AM
Thinking of you & Toby  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Mel on August 23, 2010, 11:55:43 AM
Thinking of you all x
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Poppypuppy09 on August 23, 2010, 01:06:40 PM
Thinking of you and sending you both lots of  :luv:  :luv:  :luv:
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Post by: fizzyntiffy on August 23, 2010, 04:39:46 PM
Pip, thinking of you & Toby xx lots of healing thoughts to your lovely boy  :luv: :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: johndoran on August 23, 2010, 05:23:43 PM
Sorry to hear about Toby, Bonnie Boo sends lots of healing licks and a  :bigarmhug: to you all.
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: JeffandAnnie on August 24, 2010, 06:47:13 PM
 :bigarmhug: thinking of you all
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: pipkoi on August 24, 2010, 08:09:23 PM
Well we've made the appointment at the vets for Toby tomorrow evening. Really don't know what the outcome will be. The inevitable frightens me  :'(
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: fizzyntiffy on August 24, 2010, 08:28:46 PM
 :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: thnking of you xx
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Tyler on August 24, 2010, 08:30:02 PM
We are all thinking of you, stay positive good luck for tomorrow.  :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Countrygirl on August 24, 2010, 09:33:00 PM
All the positive thoughts in the world are being sent to you.  Will be thinking of you tomorrow.
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Geordietyke on August 24, 2010, 09:35:11 PM
Fingers crossed for you all, hope it is good news :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: cockerlover1 on August 24, 2010, 09:50:55 PM
Thinking of you, yes they can go blind very quick sometimes over night, its caused by a build up of blood and pressure alot of older dogs suffer with it.
Is he staying somewhere he knows well when you go on holiday?
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: spanielcrazy on August 24, 2010, 10:39:12 PM
It's hard not to think of things like "the inevitable" when they are old, but it may be something that can be helped or lived with too

Sending lots of positive thoughts  :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: happydog on August 24, 2010, 11:51:07 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about Toby and hope that the vet visit will lead to some sort of improvement to his eyesight. Do you know what has caused the third eyelid to close? Is it as a result of underlying health problems that you are already aware of? It can be as a result of an infection, which can clear up after a course of antibiotics.

FWIW though, I know of a couple of friends, whose dogs who have lost their sight and within a short while they do adjust remarkably well. Of course it does mean that moving things around in the house is not a good idea and you have to adjust your behaviour, by giving verbal warnings and cues rather than visual, so that you don't frighten him-that sort of thing.
Have you checked your pet insurance? Some policies will include cover you if you have to cancel a holiday as a result of your pet becoming ill.
Thinking of you for tomorrow.
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: ladylola on August 25, 2010, 12:03:32 AM
Hope all goes well tomorrow. Thinking of you and hoping for a positive outcome.
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: lindseyp on August 25, 2010, 12:22:30 AM
Hope all goes well tomorrow. Thinking of you and hoping for a positive outcome.


Me too Pip  :luv: . 
Lots of gentle :bigarmhug: 's for Toby  :angel:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: mlynnf50 on August 25, 2010, 08:40:31 AM
Aw poor little mite,  I hope all goes well for today bless him.x
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: smartietopdog on August 25, 2010, 08:41:42 AM
Thinking of you today, hope all goes well this evening  :bigarmhug:

My old boy, Chops, has gone deaf, and now mostly blind, but still loves life, and gets everything he wants out of it.
Have to admit to laughing just occasionally when he misjudges the wall ph34r ph34r
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: terwish on August 25, 2010, 11:18:42 AM
Pip - my thoughts are with you and Toby today - hope it goes well honey!

Trish XxxX
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Holly Berry on August 25, 2010, 11:23:11 AM
Will be thinking of you and Toby  :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Ninasmum on August 25, 2010, 11:46:24 AM
Thinking of you both today & sending positive thoughts.  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: supergirl on August 25, 2010, 11:47:48 AM
Thinking of you both today - hope it all goes well.
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: merrysmum on August 25, 2010, 12:16:08 PM
Thinking of you all and sending lots of love and healing thoughts  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: MacTavish Boys on August 25, 2010, 01:21:06 PM
Good luck at the Vets today, i hope all goes well for Toby  :luv: :luv: :bigarmhug:

Stephanie, George and Hamish xxx
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: honeysmun on August 25, 2010, 01:45:52 PM
Thinking of you both today good luck :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: Linz13 on August 25, 2010, 02:16:40 PM
Thinking of you both today good luck :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

Me too xx
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: pipkoi on August 25, 2010, 06:03:04 PM
Thanks for all your good wishes - they worked!
We are back & with Toby. Vet confirmed that he has little functional sight left but all other functions working ok. Went for his walk tonight
Told us to go away on holiday, enjoy it as a family and see what the Autumn brings! Having said that, things could change in a few hours
But for now, we are ok
xx
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well
Post by: SkyeSue on August 25, 2010, 06:06:10 PM
Thanks for all your good wishes - they worked!
We are back & with Toby. Vet confirmed that he has little functional sight left but all other functions working ok. Went for his walk tonight
Told us to go away on holiday, enjoy it as a family and see what the Autumn brings! Having said that, things could change in a few hours
But for now, we are ok
xx

Fantastic news...really pleased for you. Way to go Toby  :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: LindyLou on August 25, 2010, 06:11:14 PM
Good to hear Toby is home with you! Hope he adjusts to his sight problems and can thrive in every other way  :luv: :luv: :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: Geordietyke on August 25, 2010, 06:18:21 PM
Pleased that the outcome was OK, you be feeling quite relieved I'm sure :D
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: honeysmun on August 25, 2010, 06:23:13 PM
great news that Toby is back home with you, enjoy your holiday :luv: :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: Ninasmum on August 25, 2010, 06:38:36 PM
Pleased to hear your news Pip.  :blink:  Hope Toby stays as well as possible for a long time yet.  :luv:

Hope you all enjoy your holiday.  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: ejp on August 25, 2010, 07:19:40 PM
Lovely news, hope you have a nice break, enjoy.  :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: johndoran on August 25, 2010, 07:23:38 PM
So pleased to hear this news, Toby you are one fantastic dog :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: Countrygirl on August 25, 2010, 08:01:12 PM
I am so so happy for you.
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: sazzysue on August 25, 2010, 08:08:53 PM
Have a lovely Holiday  :D and wishing Toby well for many more  :luv: :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: JaspersMum on August 25, 2010, 08:09:31 PM
So happy for you....

Glad you can all go away together.  At least the site is off the main roads so if she wanders around and can't see that well, she's pretty safe, same on the beach at the cottages as there are not likely to be many people on the beach besides you!
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: Mybuddies on August 25, 2010, 08:29:52 PM
 A Huge relief I am sure ;)

Have a good holiday :D
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: Lily Freya on August 25, 2010, 09:03:52 PM
Good to hear things are better than you thought...........Now have a good holiday, and come back safely to your boy.  :luv: :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: spanielcrazy on August 25, 2010, 09:10:53 PM
Woo hoo! (as Joy would say!  :005:)

 :cool4: :dance04: :banana:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: SandraD on August 25, 2010, 11:03:27 PM
Great news, now go and enjoy your hols!
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: AnnieG on August 25, 2010, 11:11:58 PM
That's fabulous news.  Now go and have a great time.
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: terwish on August 25, 2010, 11:14:45 PM
.........and breathe!!!

What fabulous news Pip - so glad to hear Toby is OK - now go and enjoy your well deserved break - and make the most of every minute.

Trish XxxX
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: lindseyp on August 25, 2010, 11:36:51 PM
that's wonderful news  :luv:
enjoy every moment of your holiday  ;) :-*
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: pipkoi on August 26, 2010, 07:33:50 AM
Thank you so much for your kind words & positive thoughts.
We can start thinking about packing now ;)
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: Sheryl on August 26, 2010, 07:46:34 AM
I was just reading through this thread.  You must be so relieved.  So very pleased for you and Toby of course. :luv:
Title: Re: Toby Not Doing Very Well. Updated Post #41
Post by: fizzyntiffy on August 26, 2010, 06:56:04 PM
Have been thinking about you & Toby and keeping my fingers crossed.  Really pleased to hear he's home xx  Hope you have a nice holiday  :D