What a lovely post mark1 & I applaud you for posting
Personally, it doesn't come across as a rant in any way & a lot of what you says make perfect sense! If you're a 'back yard breeder' then so am I too (I let my Purdey have a litter of pups but I must add that was pre - COL days & although I don't regret having the litter I don't know if I would again because despite all the test available & giving all the best care you can, things can still go wrong & do
...2 of our pups had microthalmia (small eye) & our little Tinkerbelle has been left blind because of it
....my penance that I live with every day. The reason we bread from Purdey, was for much the same reasons as yourself & wanted to possibly get involved with showing. With guidance ,help & support from experienced, successful, respected breeders we found the most wonderful stud dog, successfully mated & Purdey had 9 beautiful pups from a textbook whelp. I had secretly hoped for an orange roan to keep & show & our gorgeous Livie was born (just one...orange & white
) but because of the demands of having a blind pup, Purdey being fairly poorly with numerous illnesses over 2 years, I feel that Livie has been denied the amount of training/one2one she could of done with
shame on me I know We have had a go at showing but it is really not for her (whether that be lack of training/experience or that it is just not for her I don't know) ....she is happier running about the forest hunting out rabbits, I worship all my girls (sounds extreme but is true!) but spent many a time in tears during the 1st year as it was so hard (especially wee Tinker
) & OH said one had to go ...........my answer was for him to chose which one because I couldn't ...... we still have all 3
& thankfully all worked out ok
....just!!!The answer to your question of 'what is a reputable breeder' is a difficult one & what is acceptable to one person may not be to another .....you must trust your own instincts & decide what 'you feel' is right. I have seen & heard so much in the relatively short time I have been involved with cocker's & not all of it good & some of it has been a real eye opener.
Good luck with Molly's new sister & I wish you many, many happy years together (but my advice if you do decide to breed in the future....do your homework over & over & over again. You sound like a big softy like me mark & although it was the most magical experience I've had the privilege to be part of .....even surpasses the birth of my own 2 girls
there can be sadness, heartache & stress involved too.) Since finding & joining COL I've decided not to breed from Livie & has influenced my future personal plans ........ was very ignorant of the darker side of dog breeding/puppy farms etc
Don't be too hard on other COLers if their opinions seem strong .....a lot of them really do know their stuff & truly only have the welfare of cocker's (& all animals I think
) & if you use the good advice given you really wont go wrong. All the best. Lindsey x
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