Bella's not keen on her ears being done either as she had lots of infections when she was younger. So what I'm doing with her at the moment (along with TTouch) is some clicker training which I've done in steps as follows:
1. As she gets nervous as soon as she sees the ear cleaner, I clicked for her just looking at it.
2. Click when lifting the ear cleaner up.
3. Click for holding her earflap up whilst cleaner is in my other hand.
4. Click for the nozzle of the ear cleaner touching the bottom of her earflap (so nowhere near the ear canal)
5. Gradually move the nozzle up so that it's at the entrance of her ear
6. Finally, click for a squirt of cleaner going in
I did this the other night for the first time and she let me clean both ears without the usual performance of her keeping on turning away or positioning her head so I can't get to her ears. And of course then she got lots of fuss and a nice ear massage.
I have a theory that really anyone with a spaniel (or any breed for that matter) should clicker train their pups from the start to allow the nozzle of an earcleaner to be put into their ears (obviously without squirting stuff in every time
). Think how much easier it would be for vets to look down them and for them to accept eardrops...
It's similar to what they do with gorillas in some zoos, they clicker them to have a syringe placed on their arm (no needle) so that when they come to have to give them an injection, it's no big deal.