I was daunted by the idea of a crate before we got Bella but followed the general advice of using one. I'm reallllllllllllly glad we did.
Bella was actually
happy to go in there, so we didn't feel mean or anything.
It has proved useful in lots of ways, we use it in the car for when she's a soggy dog (most of the time!) and we've used it in caravan's on holiday etc.
The first day Bella came home we had the crate in the lounge so it was with us rather than stuck in another room. We filled it with vet bed and cosy fleece blankets, we also laid a huge towel underneath it which stuck out around the edges and a piece of vetbed on top of this. We left the door open all day and she wandered in and out of it/slept in or near it of her own accord. When it came to bedtime she seemed quite happy to be left in there and the door shut. We also gave her a puppy heat pad at night and some cuddly toys (one of which she still drags around with her to this day). She never cried once.
After a few days in the lounge we tried moving her crate to the kitchen with the theory that she was now used to it but she did cry a little bit with this move
We moved her back to the lounge (she settled straight away) and tried again after a week and she was fine. (btw, our kitchen is about as small as it could be and the crate still fits in there, it did do my head in a bit because it had to be moved to get to the washing machine but it was ok). By the time she was about 4/5 months old we started trusting her with the crate door open and put a baby gate on the kitchen door. At about 6 months old the crate was removed and she just had the gated kitchen.
She is 18 months old now and we use the crate in the car mainly but have also used it on holidays as previously mentioned. She is left in our gated kitchen when we go out and sleeps in our room
in her lovely basket on my head at night
Get one! You'll be pleased you did