Mark
Im doing my best. Im avoiding the road as best I can but I live on it so I have no option but to walk along it for the distance of the house on the corner - about 1000ft till I get to the lane
To take him anywhere else it will be to take him further along by cars. Its a country A road, fast but not what you call busy,no footpath, my house is set about 100ft back with no boundry. Im picking my times as best I can to avoid as much of the cars as possible - you can actually go 10 mins without one passing, then when one does its flyng down doing over 60mph. Yes I am tensing as even if I leave Alfie with just enough lead that his feet can touch the ground, the verge is narrow enough that he can reach the tarmac if he lunges
The lane is as quiet as Im going to get. It services two farms and three houses so cars are hit and miss, mainly milk tankers and tractors, farm owners cars and the odd car using it as a cut through. Once again I pick my time between school run, milktankers and cow milking to avoid what I can. Once again cos theres no foot path I am having to hold Alfie on a near strangle to stop him getting under the wheels
Hes fine around parked cars passes them no heed. The minute he sees a car moving then hes "waiting for it" theres no keeping his focus on me at all, dodging past me to see the car. Ive noticed as well that hes taken to sitting at the back fence looking through the slats to watch the cars go by.
So unless I never let him out of the house, cars are something hes got to deal with. And I cant understand why all of a sudden this fixation has come about. In London we lived on a very busy road, cars up and down all day and of course walking him anywhere meant walking along roads that were choked with cars. There he happily sat at the curb waiting to cross with busses, lorries and cars barely a whisker away.Walking in big parks going back to the car park he walked nicely, cars not bothering him and rarely needing to be put back onlead. He was never the most well behaved dogs but those that have met him on meets will vouch he wasnt a monster either, walked nicely along side, came back when called, gave up his ball when asked to drop. Now cos Im frazzeled with the car episodes, Ive lost the lot, Id be better of talking to a wall
He does the same when my mother walks him so she wont/cant walk him anymore as hes too strong for her. Dont know about hubby cos hes not here and Im not on dropping in for coffee terms let alone "can you help with me and my dog" with the neighbours yet.
So right now I am feeling rather crap and totally useless and thinking I may just have to ring the breeder as I obviously cant cope on my own. My arms are pulled out of their sockets and my hands are bruised from wrapping the lead. I have nerve compression in my left arm so have no strength and very little feeling in the left hand which is why I thought that maybe getting the harness would help with the control. If I can get him past the road and to be able to walk up the lane in an half orderly manner we could then work more on his focus on me when cars are passing or maybe thats going about things the wrong way?