Sometimes when I read posts on here, I start to panic a little. A lot of people seem horrified thattheir dogs growl at them, or snap from time to time. This got me to thinking that maybe I accept as natural, behaviour that I should not.
Honey is a very vocal and generally "grumbly" dog - and I have just tolerated and worked with it. During the day she is very active but usually seeks out a quiet place to sleep when she is tired. In the evenings, after her walk she lies down and doesn't much like to be disturbed. If anyone were to approach her atthese times, she wuld kind of give a low growl and "dirty look" as if to say back off, I am having quiet time. I accept it as that. Were she lying somewhere incovenient where she needed to be moved (most likely on top of you
), and you have to move her she grumbles and growls for all that - but its at being moved, not at me.
If she has a bone, she takes it off somewhere quiet and grumbles at anyone who passes within 6ft of her - we just ignore her now - she doesn't snap. Occasionally I will go up and take it off her - while she still gives a throaty growl and give it back again - the whole time the growl stays at a throaty protest and never gets any worse.
If the kids sometimes push their luck with her - like really push their luck - she growls a warning - and they know they have gone too far (thankfully this doesn't happen that much anymore as everyone now knows each other). But again I accept that as her warning and have taught the kids to recognise that - they are never alone with her and I have to say this happens rarely.
When I bring the shopping home, she guards it - particularly f she sniffs out some chews for her. We ignore her and unpack it as quickly as possible. She used to get a chew from the bag, but realising this was reenforcing the guarding, she now gets it after everything is put away and she has wandered off because she has lost interest.
Occasionally we still get the odd snap, is someone does something she really doesn't like - mostly me, grooming her ears
.
On Christmas Day she was very grumbly with all strangers in the house - but I put it down to a packed house, a m-i-l who kept poking at her and loads of food about all over the place.
Am I too accepting of bad behaviour from a grumpy dog
?