I think *ignoring* a dog is a very small part of NILIF - I prefer to ask Molo to sit/down etc. I do ask him to do this when he demands attention/cuddles, as I consider this to be good manners, just as I would expect my daughter to say
excuse me before she started talking to me when I am busy
He will come and sit at my feet at the sofa, and he gets invited up for a cuddle - he used to leap up uninvited, but not all guests are in favour and we are still working well on this
. I suppose the time-out approach (walking away, or putting her in another room) is ignoring in its own way
Penel, do you have any references about NILIF and depression? As you know I am a bit fan of the technique, and would be keen to find out how the depression was linked to NILIF, and the way in which the NILIF was applied. An established dog can experience an "extinction burst" when NILIF is first applied, as the dog learns that the rules have changes, and are consistant; but my experience is that this does peeter out, and the result on my case was a far more secure dog, who was consequently much less aggressive (and narrowly escaped being PTS
)
Oviously, Molo doesn't know any different, as we have always applied NILIF since he was a 10 week old puppy and came home with us......