My dad is also of the type who believes that dogs should know they are dogs and know their place.
When I think about the dogs we had at home they were well behaved in that they didn't steal food etc, but they were aggressive.
We had a corgi/jack russell - she was a bad tekpered little so and so. She did not care that she was theheight of nothing - she put everything and everyone in their place. Was this her nature - I don't know - but I can see how the my dad's dominance theory made her worse.
We then had a corgi - she was a lovely dog - but very aggresive also - particularly with strangers -although very loving to the family.
We had these two dogs together and they fought terribly - they were really vicious, it was awful.
These dogs however were my dad's dogs - but looking back I don't know whether they loved or were so submossive to him because they were terrified of him.
The last dog they had was a westie and she was a different kettle of fish. She too was yappy and nippy. But no matter how much my dad tried to put her in her place, she wouldn't have it - and it was always my mum she went to.
As for Honey - dad can't figure her out at all. She is very nervous of him, and will do as she is told if she is being naughty and she willingly goes to him - but when it comes to commands such as sit etc, she will not do it fro him. Maybe this is because she has been trained to do them our way or maybe it is becuase when he tells her off in a reactive situation, she is frightened of him and outside of that she won't do as he tells her.
We have problems with her and I probably put up with more from her than others would expect me to. she barks incessantly when strangers come into the house. If they ignore her, she is over for attention - but at her speed and in her way. If they make of her - she gets more frantic. If they give her attention too soon in the friend making process, she also willstart to bark.
She went to get groomed last week - thegroomer completely ignored everything she did until she accepted her attention - and then they were friends.
Sometimes I feel so frustrtaed - I justthink why can't you leave her alone.
Our house is a very stressful house - my daughter has Asoergers and is prone to tantrums; my little daughter has Sensory Integration Dysfunction and also is very highly strung - I really do think this has affected Honey - a less nervous dog would probably be fine - but she is not.
This is the way she is - we prevent and manage behaviour as best we can