Dylan and Jessie are not fed from our plates at the table. They will lie down quietly near the table but they are not dribbling or pestering for food. Though when our daughter-in-law was here, Dylan took a bite out of her bagel when she had left it too near the edge of the table. OH does give them a piece of carrot when preparing the veg for dinner, but I won't do that. So when I am preparing dinner they never bother to come in the kitchen, they know they are never going to be given food. Dylan does tend to sit in front of OH if he is sat in a chair having a sandwich, but never bothers me for food, because he knows he is not going to get anything.