After reading all this, I'm glad you have got your papers, what a parlarva!
I know a few different breeders of cats that are partnered but they usually have both names on the papers. I have a pedigree kitty, did my research and talked to a few people and breeders. The owner wanted to charge more for the kitty but I stood my ground and left with said kitty and papers. After a few complaints to the rspca/cat protection and a few other organisations, along with some other people who bought from the same breeder, this person was shut down and had all breeders removed.
It is a dreadful business and many get hooked in, no matter the research you do.