Hi, I'm new to the site and new to owning a Cocker Spaniel.
I have had other dogs before (x breeds) and I have never had to deal with what I am at the moment.
We looked into which breed to get as we have 2 boys age 3 & 6 and a cat. I saw an ad for Beth and felt so sorry for her, she is partially blind and was being hit by the owners autisic son. When we went to look at her, she was in such a state that I couldn't leave her. I was told she could be left for at least 2 hours and mainly attaches to 1 person.
Well, I got her straight to the vets and had her injections done which she had not had any since her first, major underweight problem, and cannot be left more than a minute.
Her eye is now being treated but will be ongoing, put on a little weight and her coat is now shiny. The main problem is her attachment, she will cry if I pop out of the room, major barking and howling when being left at home on her own. My husband tries to play with her but will not have anything to do with him and refuses to walk but if I take the lead she will trot along nicely.
The main reason I'm on here is, to be perfectly honest, if I had been told that was the main reason they were getting rid of her then I wouldn't have taken her on. I consulted a trainer who has set out a plan but I know it will take time and I have a child myself with needs but I have no one near by who I can leave her with. I'm feeling restricted at the moment and we have both with a very sad heart even spoken of her being placed with someone with more time.
She starts to make progress then we have a major set back with crying while I'm in the same room. I don't know much of her history to even begin to understand why she is so bad. She is the most adorable dog and very calm but with her eye on me the whole time. I've tried all the calming aids but nothing makes a difference, I would love for her to feel settled without needing me at all times. My son would love to play with her but she is just not interested. Feeling very confused and don't know what else to do to try and make her feel safe. As I'm new to this breed, is there something I'm not understanding about Cocker Spaniels?