Jools, when looking for a cocker spaniel puppy I read your post and took note of everything that you said, I also thought at the time how brave you were for sticking by Millie. No matter what anyone says I dont think you can walk away from a situation when you see a puppy suffering so. You so obviously did everything you could for Millie in her life and gave her as much love and patience as you possibly could, unfortunately it wasnt enough - the damage before she picked you was already done. Thank goodness you did come into her life as its very probable that if anyone else had responded to that ad she wouldnt have had the chances that you gave her.
It makes me so sad that you had to go through this and also that Millie had to live a life that neednt have been the way it was if it were not for the inconsiderate, greedy puppy farmers.
((((hugs))) to you and your family and Bramble too, rest assured that you did the best thing and that Millie is at peace now.
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