It dawned on me today that I have devised my own sign language with my puppy. Trouble is no-one else realised until today, including myself, hence the reason I was the only person he listened to. When I have been training him, as well as saying the command, I have attributed all sorts of hand signals too. It was only when I was showing my mother in law how well trained he was, because she is house and puppy sitting for him in a few weeks that we realised. When I showed her I pointed, drew an imaginary line across the floor in the air for lie down, tapped my side for heel etc. But my husband just says the command, so he ignores him. I said oh point, oh pat your side etc, and as soon as he did puppy obeyed immediately. ooops
So now my husband is watching me to see what I have taught him. There's no hope