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Cocker Specific Discussion => General Cocker Spaniel Discussion => Topic started by: *Adele* on June 01, 2009, 08:14:37 PM

Title: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: *Adele* on June 01, 2009, 08:14:37 PM
Well some of you have already seen through Facebook that we'll be welcoming a very special little black cocker spaniel into our lives, home and hearts again very very soon! It's taken 7 months since losing Chloe and we still miss her dearly but I've finally given in and thanks to the wonderful Kim, Molkara Fright Night aka FloraDoraNora will be joining us on Wednesday! Thank you so much Kim!!!!!

We've all missed a special cocker in our lives and I can't wait for Wednesday morning!  :005: The kids don't know yet so it's going to be a big surprise for them  ph34r so I've got one whole day to prepare the rest of the house and get all the necessary toys, leads, bedding etc to welcome our new baby to her new home  :luv:

It's been a very turbulent time for us all here over the last six months or so but my feet have gone cold for long enough, my walks around the country park have been lonely enough for too long!  :'(

Thank you again Kim and watch out for the photos  :D It shall be interesting watching the rabbits and cats meet our new family member  :luv:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Beth on June 01, 2009, 08:17:56 PM
Welcome back. :D What happened with Chloe? Must have missed it :-\ really sorry to hear that. :'(

Look forward to seeing pics of your new addition :luv:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: JennyBee on June 01, 2009, 08:22:25 PM
Hi I only began posting in December so haven’t ‘met’ you before but welcome back anyway!  So very sorry to hear about Chloe :'( :'(.  Life just isn’t the same without a dog, is it?  I hope your new little bundle will help heal your heart - would love to see photos of FloraDoraNora when she arrives :luv: :luv:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Jeanette on June 01, 2009, 08:22:51 PM
I didn't know you lost Chloe either  :'(.   Congratulations Adele, Flora is gorgeous and gives great cuddles.   Can't wait to see lots of pics of her  :luv: :luv:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: *Jay* on June 01, 2009, 08:26:20 PM
Sorry Adele, I didn't realise you lost Chloe either  :'(  I'm sure FloraDoraNora will bring you all lots of joy  :luv:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Helen on June 01, 2009, 08:26:49 PM
so sorry about Chloe, I missed that too  :'( :'(

welcome back  :D
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: *Adele* on June 01, 2009, 08:27:44 PM
Hi everyone, it's difficult to talk about, I know people are going to ask though and I've hidden from the forum since it all happened as it was such a terrible time. I last posted about her change in behaviour after being spayed; we had numerous trips to the vets and there was no medical condition to explain the change. She went for my two kids on numerous occassions totally unprovoked and became totally unpredictable. I thought we had turned a corner and her hormones were settling down but it didn't last very long. Sadly we had to let her go. I will always wonder whether it was the right decision but I couldn't put my children at risk any more, fortunately the experience hasn't put them off dogs and they've nagged constantly for another!

Chloe will always have a very special place in all our hearts, she was there with me through some very difficult times and I spent so much time with her training etc but a house isn't a home without a very special Cocker Spaniel in it  :blink:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Brimbeck(Dyllan) on June 01, 2009, 08:30:11 PM
I'm sure she will be perfect, a real cuddle monster. :luv: :luv: :luv:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: KatieJean on June 01, 2009, 08:32:43 PM
Enjoy your new addition. I'm sure you will ;)
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Penelope on June 01, 2009, 08:35:40 PM
Welcome back Adele.
Looking forward to pix soon.
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: ClareB on June 01, 2009, 08:36:46 PM
Welcome back.   :D  So sorry to hear about Chloe.   :'(  Hope the wait 'til Wednesday doesn't drag, and look forward to seeing pics of your new addition.  ;)
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: bracken on June 01, 2009, 08:44:18 PM
Welcome back  :blink:
Looking forward to the pics  :luv:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Helen on June 01, 2009, 08:50:10 PM
I'm sorry to hear that Adele - was Chloe re-homed or did you have to PTS?  :-\
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: speedyjaney on June 01, 2009, 08:50:53 PM
Welcome back Adele - we've missed your witty posts!!

So sorry to hear about Chloe.....but Im looking forward to seeing pics of FloraDoraNora soon!!

JAney
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: cazza on June 01, 2009, 08:56:01 PM
welcome back hun and good luck with the new addition  :luv:

edited to add - Chloe is always with you in your heart and you know I am always here for you :wub:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: *Adele* on June 01, 2009, 09:13:09 PM
I'm sorry to hear that Adele - was Chloe re-homed or did you have to PTS?  :-\
She was PTS  :'( and I will always wonder whether it was the right thing to do, especially after the over friendly postman said he would have taken her on!  :'( But I would have always been wondering what she was doing, whether she was attacking other dogs, other kids, you name it! I've found out since she used to growl at my then partner when I wasn't around which wasn't like her, maybe she was telling him something!?!?!?! As I've looked back her behaviour to other dogs was unpredictable and I'm not the kind of person not to know my dog inside and out, I don't want to feel like a bad owner and I don't want to feel like I've let her down! She was my shadow completely and it's only after we lost her that I realised quite how much she had changed; I think spending so much time with her I saw her change gradually and loved her so much I made excuses for her  ph34r After speaking to people we walked with daily they were shocked but all mentioned the change in her and understand completely. RIP Chloe xxx

Thank you for all the welcomes back, life really isn't the same without a cocker  :luv:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Helen on June 01, 2009, 09:14:48 PM
I'm so sorry you had to make that decision  :'(
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: cazza on June 01, 2009, 09:18:32 PM
Blimey Adele I know how hard that was for you to type  :luv:

I just want you to know that I am still here for you as i was then  :-*  (yes I have to admit to knowing what happened at the time and hopefully i did give you some support through the PM's we shared  :luv:  ;) )
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: *Adele* on June 01, 2009, 09:23:22 PM
Thanks guys and a huge thanks and hug for you Caroline!  :luv: Off to blow my nose now, RIP Braan and Chloe  :'(
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Joules on June 01, 2009, 09:24:54 PM
I'm so sorry you had to make that decision  :'(

Me too - it must have been awful  :'( :'(

Welcome back to COL - hope you will stay around this time :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: bajoleth on June 01, 2009, 09:32:56 PM
Hi,welcome back, we had to have our cavie pts in Jan for health reasons and even though you know you are doing the right thing it really doesn't help with the guilt does it :'( But on a lighter note we too have a 13 week old solid black show cocker called Belle, she is being a very good girl, doing all the puppy things but that is only to be expected ;) I bet you can't wait to see the look on your kids faces, we kept it a secret until 2 weeks before we picked her up, my OH just blurted it out whilst watching a dog act on Britains got Talent ph34r >:( I would have loved it to have stayed a secret, I really look forward to seeing pics of your new bundle of fun ;)
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: SandraD on June 01, 2009, 09:40:31 PM
Welcome back to COL and so sorry to hear about your beautiful Chloe.  Good luck with the new addition, we have a four month old blue roan and tan show cocker called Monty and he is keeping me on my toes, but I wouldn't have it any other way!
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: *Adele* on June 01, 2009, 09:44:37 PM
I do hope to stay around now and to keep up to date with all the meets, all the news and I am contemplating showing this time around  ph34r FloraNoraDora is doing so well so far it seems a shame not to but I don't know, a huge committment I know!  :005:

bajoleth - it's so hard hiding the secret isn't it? The kids are going to be totally over the moon, well I say that, they had hoped for a Golden Retriever!  ::) Maybe in a couple of years?  :005: They are my 2nd choice but after loving a cocker so much they will always be my first choice, despite our experience  :luv:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Coco on June 01, 2009, 09:50:49 PM
Welcome back Adele, so sorry to hear about Chloe. I think it's natural whatever the circumstances of one of our pups passing to have 'what ifs' and 'if onlys' doubts and regrets, it's part of the process but i'm sure that you did the absolute best anyone could have for your girl.  :luv:

Congratulations on your new addition, I bet you must be bursting at the seams to tell the kids. I have to say I think i'd have to tell the the night before or something so that I could share my excitement  :D Have they got a day off school the next day?  ;)

Can't wait for the pics
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Jeanette on June 01, 2009, 09:58:25 PM
So sorry you had to make that decision.  :'(  I'm sure FND will bring you loads of love and happiness  :luv:   
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: *Adele* on June 01, 2009, 10:02:42 PM
Welcome back Adele, so sorry to hear about Chloe. I think it's natural whatever the circumstances of one of our pups passing to have 'what ifs' and 'if onlys' doubts and regrets, it's part of the process but i'm sure that you did the absolute best anyone could have for your girl.  :luv:

Congratulations on your new addition, I bet you must be bursting at the seams to tell the kids. I have to say I think i'd have to tell the the night before or something so that I could share my excitement  :D Have they got a day off school the next day?  ;)

Can't wait for the pics


Nope they'll be back at school the next day as normal! I think FND (thanks Jeanette!) will probably appreciate that! I need time with the new love of my life to get her introduced to all the other pets! Don't want to upset any of them!  :005:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Coco on June 01, 2009, 10:27:36 PM
On a totally different note, didn't Cob-web Rachel used to have that avatar pic - this will be confusing!  :005:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Cath on June 01, 2009, 10:32:26 PM
Hi Adele and welcome back. I am so sorry to hear about Chloe, it has to be one of the hardest decisions ever to make  :'( I hope that Wednesday comes quickly for you and wish you all the best for many happy years with FloraNoraDora. Looking forward to seeing her photos  :-*
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Max X 2 on June 01, 2009, 10:43:18 PM
Sorry Adele, like the majority I didn't know about Chloe  :'(

Hope we don't have to wait too long to meet this new beautiful baby  :luv:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Hurtwood Dogs on June 01, 2009, 11:06:05 PM
Adele, I'm so so sorry to hear about Chloe - I've had my head in nappies since Jan so not really noticed things going on but I thought i hadn't seen you post for a while. I remember you posting about problems with her and really hope you're ok. We all know it's not a decision that will have been easy for you  :-* :-*

Anyway, can't wait to see you're new little lady, LOVE the name  :005: Can't wait to hear how the kids react too  :luv:

On a totally different note, didn't Cob-web Rachel used to have that avatar pic - this will be confusing!  :005:

That was confusing me too!!! But that's easily done these days :lol:

Hannah xx
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: lisalh on June 01, 2009, 11:07:46 PM
Hi Adele and welcome back. I am so sorry to hear about Chloe, it has to be one of the hardest decisions ever to make  :'( I hope that Wednesday comes quickly for you and wish you all the best for many happy years with FloraNoraDora. Looking forward to seeing her photos  :-*
Ditto  :luv: :luv: Think you have been incredibly brave and had to make one of the hardest decisions there could possibly be :luv:


Agree that the Avatar pic could be a bit confusing think you should change it to FND ;) when she arrives
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Clover on June 01, 2009, 11:23:31 PM
Welcome back Adele, sorry to hear your sad news about Chloe.

Hoping your new little one helps heal your pain.   Sarah x
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: barb on June 02, 2009, 04:10:56 AM
Welcome back from us too Adele, so sorry to hear about your Chloe. :'(
I'm sure you new little bundle FDN (!) will fill the cocker shaped hole in your heart!  :-*
Waiting for pics and how the kids reacted to the surprise!  :lol:
Don't know how you can keep her a secret though!  ;)
Barb and Pippa
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: sarah25 on June 02, 2009, 07:37:02 AM
So sorry to hear about Chloe  :'(

Your a lucky lady! Ive met FDN and she is stunning she is also Doris's half sister  :luv: plenty of photos on FB of Doris to look at  :005:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Lily Freya on June 02, 2009, 07:44:16 AM
Fantastic that the children haven't been put off by the experience. 

Good luck with your new addition to the family....hope all goes well for you all after your heartbreaking decision. xx
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Dunton4 on June 02, 2009, 08:07:50 AM
Hi Adele, I was only thinking of you the other day and wondering how you were doing.  I'm so sorry you had to make that hard decision about Chloe - I can't imagine how painful it must have been.  Enjoy your new puppy  :luv:  I am sure she will help heal the hole in your heart.

Looking forward to seeing the photos and hearing all about her.

Sue and Tilly
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: MacTavish Boys on June 02, 2009, 10:18:45 AM
Welcome back Adele, i am so sorry to hear about Chloe, not an easy decision  :'( i am looking foward to hearing all about FDN and the pictures of course :D
Take care  :luv:

Stephanie, George and Hamish xxx
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Silver Surfer (indiesnan) on June 02, 2009, 10:25:48 AM
Hi Adele, welcome back  so sorry to hear about Chloe, it must have been an awful decision for you too make  :'(


..looking forward to seeing the piccies of FND.  :luv:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: *Adele* on June 02, 2009, 11:51:38 AM
Thank you everyone  :luv: I've missed all you guys so much, not quite as much as Chloe obviously but nearly! FND will be so welcome here tomorrow and it is sooooo difficult keeping it a secret! But I can't wait to see their faces!!!  :005: FND is Flora for short but I have a feeling that the kids may want to call her Dora after the famous Explorer!  :005: So I'll let them decide tomorrow  :005:

Hopefully you'll approve of the new avatar for now until FND gets here  ;) One of our other recent additions to the home of Gladwin!  :luv: We have gone from a 2 cat household to a 4 cat household again and these two are little devils but very sweet!  >:D This is Indie, short for Indiana Jones as he was exploring as soon as he was born! Will post some more pics later of the kittens in case anyone is interested  :shades:

Right time to get preparing for our new arrival!  :P

Thanks again everyone, it means an awful lot  :blink:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: bracken on June 02, 2009, 02:28:15 PM
Just one sleep to go  :luv:

Enjoy your day tomorrow  :blink:
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: *Adele* on June 02, 2009, 02:52:15 PM
Just one sleep to go  :luv:

Enjoy your day tomorrow  :blink:

TeeHee! Yup, how excited am I? I've spent most of the day looking at the house and garden through a puppy dogs eyes making sure I've not missed something! And the rest of the day looking at all the lovely pics on here!  :005: Can't wait!!!!!! The car is packed already!  :005: Cat food out of reach hopefully! Not so sure about the litter tray just yet...  ::) Hopefully she'll be a very good ickle girl and not bother with it!  :005: Yeah right, who am I kidding?  ph34r
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: emilyjw on June 02, 2009, 03:53:10 PM
Hi Adele

Welcome back.. I am another up to my elbows in nappies, so miss most things that are going on....  ::)

Good luck with the pup...

Em x
Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: Magic Star on June 02, 2009, 09:50:51 PM
Hi Adele

I'm so sorry to hear about Chloe, what an awful decision to have to make.  Rest in peace Chloe :luv:

Stick around Adele, its nice to see you on here :shades:

Title: Re: Saying a shy hello again!
Post by: annG on June 05, 2009, 12:42:14 AM
I have just been reading this tread, you poor thing how awful ,    you had to do what you had to do. There was no other choice.
 Mind a new dog will make you feel a lot better.
My very first cocker only lived two months. I was devastated when he died. I started looking straight away 3 months later we had our little Jaffa and that made everything OK again.