Hi, my gold bitch is also related to your pup,take her to ringcraft and dont be put off, ive been showing for 11 years now and ruby is full on ,a happy go lucky cocker as they should be , much easier to show than a quiet timid cocker, they are a gundog and should be full of it. her half sister mini moo never stops shes ready to go the minute her paws hit the ring shes exuberant noisy doesnt miss thing and i would not change her for the world. shes 4 years old now and enjoys every show and has never grown up, and why should she shes a cocker!!!! good luck, hope to bump into you sometime at a show kx.