MegandMolly Thanks so much for your kind words. I read your msgs out to my other half, its reassuring to know you would do the same thing.
Due to the fact Oscar has been a dream all week we have sat on it and not really made any decisions, until tonight. My brother came round and basically had a go at us, saying that we should have already had him rehomed and we are risking with our son by not doing so. Made us feel like c**p tbh but we have made the phone call and he is going to his new home on Sat. Ive cried all night, we were contemplating trying to work with him but I do agree its taking a risk so as agonising as it is the ball is rolling now. We have had no more crazy rages from him and Im feeling a bit easier around the gates etc although not 100% confident. The house just wont be the same without him and my little boy will be gutted too, he asks for Oscar every morning. Its so frustrating, I just wish he could see what he was doing to himself!!! Thankyou to you all for putting up with my emotional ramblings.......xxx