Oh please !!! I agree with everything everyone has said !! I have found it particularly exhausting, as I am chronically ill and hooked up to oxygen 24/7 !! Yes, I have shed tears and thought I've done the wrong thing having a puppy, but stop and think,she will get better,she will curl up on your lap and sleep,she will stop biting,she will pee in the garden and not on your bed,she will lie in in the morning,she will give you soooo much pleasure it will be indescribable (sp) Hang in there,I did and the joy of having a cocker spaniel is beyond believe,even with all hard bits !! My beautiful daughter is expecting her first baby in March,I wanted a dog but I had to be sure of it's temperament, I can put my hand in my puppies mouth now and she will let me do it !! My Tilly is just adorable even though she might drive me batty,I don't know where I would be without her. Slow down,enjoy your dog,learn to breathe and go with the flo !! I hope you all will be so happy soon. xx