Hi, can anyone help, we have a 4 yr old red cocker. We got her when she was 2 from a breeder, she wasn't too bad the first 12 months but doesn't welcome visitors and growls, Of course I want her to bark if anyone comes up the drive, but she doesn't seem to know when to stop, I shush her & try & settle her down. She used to live in a pen & I wondered if maybe because she hadn't had anything to look after this is what she is doing. I am concerned about the growling it makes people feel very uncomfortable. I have tried distracting her when anyone comes, throwing carrot or taking her on the lawn to play ball, and recently put her outside straight away when she was growling when my brother came in, I let her in about five minutes later and she went straight to him jumped up once and was then ok, but growled again when he was leaving. I wonder is it fear aggression. She is fine with my husband and I & very responsive to all commands except this one problem when anyone visits.
My guess (and that's all it is) is that she's anxious and worried about visitors, which is quite possibly linked to not being well socialised when she was with her previous owners.
If she was mine I would try to take the pressure off her by teaching her that when visitors arrive she goes into a particular place, perhaps a room away from the visitors or in her crate (if she's crate trained) or behind a babygate, so that she doesn't have to meet the visitors. Make it a nice place and nice experience for her. If she likes a chew or a kong it would be a good time to give one to her. It may help her to associate visitors with nice and relaxing things happening.
If she seems relaxed and your visitors are dog savvy you could try giving her the choice to join you, but ask the visitors to completely ignore her. If she approaches them they could throw a few treats towards her while still ignoring her.
It's a routine that has worked with my now 7 year old Cocker Louis, who became suspicious and barky around strangers after an incident when he was a puppy. He understands that when visitors arrive he goes into the study, as does my other Cocker (who's confident) behind a babygate and with some treats or a chew. If the visitors don't like dogs I leave the dogs in there, but if they're OK with them I remove the babygate after a while and then it's up to the dogs to choose. The confident one always comes in, does a bit of excited barking and then settles. Louis might choose not to come in, or may come in and stay near me. The choice is his and if he comes in and then starts getting agitated I put him back in the study. Not as a punishment, but in a bright and breezy way.
That's just my experience. It's difficult to give advice on a forum because none of us know your dog or what causes her to be so uncertain. I know that with Louis it's because he's fearful of strangers, so because we don't have a lot of visitors I've found the mix of taking the pressure off him then letting him meet certain people when he's calm and when it's his choice, works for us.
I hope you find a solution
