Thanks to everyone who took the time to reply to my post. I don't get on here very often (three kids plus pup!), so was surprised just now to read that my post seems to have stirred up a bit of a hornets' nest. I don't know who this Cesar Milan guy is; I've been raising Flora with help from the Cocker books (Jane Simmons & Derek Shapland) and The Perfect Puppy, by Gwen Bailey. I'd recommend all three to anyone, and I wouldn't argue with any of the principles. I'm sure there are times when Flora THINKS she's the boss, but then my one year old, three year old and seven year old THINK they are sometimes too! For the record, ALL of them mistake the matter, but pups and children will try it on. Also, I'm happy to report that Flora has behaved impreccably since so I think she was just grouchy because of teething.
Thanks again all,
Jayne