i finding it difficult to tell the difference...even with Biba and Lola they go quite frantic with teeth showing ...any tips has to what to look for 
I would be guided by the other dogs reaction tbh - dogs are far better at reading doggy language than we are, so you should be able to tell

If one of the pups takes things too far, then the other pup will stop and back away, maybe yelp and the play will end

Similarly, an adult dog will usually put a pup in it's place if it goes "too far", but will tolerate very boisterous play from puppies
