Tenterhooks is a good description of how I feel

Taking a deposit (it was only $100) when you go on the wait list is normal around here, at least for uncommon breeds, or really desirable dogs. I've never heard of it for a lab or golden retreiver, which are extremely common. The other EC breeders here are taking deposits for litters they're planning for over a year from now. I guess for the breeder it gives reassurance that you're making a commitment to taking one of their pups, cause they're not common, so it might be tricky to find an appropriate home on short notice. For me, its a commitment from the breeder to give me one of their pups and not sell it to someone who offers more $$....sigh. I'm guessing that from an economics POV the breeder likely uses the deposit $$ to help pay for testing ect. If for whatever reason, she can't give me a pup at the agreed upon time, then I can get refunded.
So I'm not really worried about that per say....and no...I don't have a recommendation on the breeder...as there isn't anyone to make the recommendation really. She is very active in showing and competitive obedience though, and both the dam and the sire seem to have respectable bloodlines, both holding champion titles in conformation and obedience, the highest hip scores and clear eyes for at least 5 generations back....and the mother of the sire actually holds the most CKC titles of any EC in Canada right now (her name is Willowcroft's Single Sensation). I do really like her though.....and no she doesn't have both dogs at her home, just the bitch, the sire lives nearby, maybe 20-30 miles away from her.
I hadn't at all thought of importing. Is that really a consideration? I am looking for a show cocker, not a worker....I don't really want to get into conformation showing but would like to do pursue therapy dog training, maybe do some therapy work and perhaps explore the world of rally obedience, which is quite popular here.
It might just be really $$ to import....we're looking at $1100-1300 at the price of a dog, and I'm not sure how much a dog from the UK or US would be worth...and what the shipping would add to it....and whether or not my OH would agree to that(I think $1200 is his limit!). Something really important to us also, is to meet the pups and the dam/sire, and to have an agreement that the breeder would take the pup back if something terrible were to happen that we couldn't look after it. We had a really awful rescue dog experience past fall, where my son and OH both suffered some dog attacks....and have some scars....I'm just thankful that my OH has agreed to try another dog, but I don't think there is any way he would agree to it if he didn't think he could take the pup back if it 'turned' on him. (even though I personally don't think that would happen if we raise it from a pup, but that's where he's at. If our next dog, ever badly bites him, I am sure I will never ever have another dog in my life)
On the other hand, we are really very close to the Toronto international airport....(well, what we call very close! You guys would probably call that distance halfway across the country...but eh, we have a lot of space here!)
I also wonder about how stressful to the pup that is. I know people do it....hm. But for the price, it might be better to seek one in the US....and to get us passports so that we can drive down and get it. What put me off about the passports is that it takes 4-5 months just to get one and I think it costs at least $100 per person, maybe more...and they're only good for a year.....sheesh. And at the same time, ECs aren't common in the US either. We have so so so so many American cockers here, and many of them are high strung, snappy, temperamental.....but besides that, I just can't handle the look of their shoved in short noses, and the fact that they can't hold a decent sized stick (let alone a dead bird!) in their mouths, and have so so much coat...mmmm, no, not for me. sigh.
How much do you guys think importing would cost? And what's the going price of a UK dog? And can you tranquilize a pup that long? Surely it must be a 12 hour or more flight.