Millie just growled at Phil when she was on my lap (he was trying to sit on my head - don't ask!). She seems to have taken a few backwards steps this week but I don't blame her. She's been with Mum and Dad for 10 days while we were on holiday and then she was spayed on Thursday so she doesn't know whats going on. The trouble is Phil got a bit angry about it

Unfortunately I then told him a few home truths about how harsh he is with her even when he thinks he's being nice

. I made him go and get a treat and feed her while she was sat on the sofa with me, but she's looks very wary when she looks at him. Do we just carry on as normal and hope she settles down again?