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Title: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: garygttdi on April 04, 2012, 01:33:04 PM
Its with a very sad heart that I would like to inform all contributors that my mummy passed away suddenly last Thursday after a very short battle with cancer.
I iz missing my mummy and wants her back, daddy is trying for me but its just not the same (daddy is garygttdi)
 :'(
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Post by: 8 Hairy Feet on April 04, 2012, 01:42:35 PM
oh Gary....
do you mean LIz?
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Post by: julie1 on April 04, 2012, 01:47:38 PM
I'm so very very sorry  :bigarmhug: this is for you, you're mummy isn't in pain anymore  :-*  Give your daddy a big big hug & be good for him.   He will be thankful to have you around
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Post by: MaggieR on April 04, 2012, 01:52:04 PM
Oh Tuppence I'm so sorry  :'(  Me and Maggie are sending big hugs for you and your daddy, I hope you can take some comfort from each other over the coming days and weeks  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:'s
xx
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Post by: Bluebell on April 04, 2012, 01:58:10 PM
So sorry for your loss :'( give each other lots of hugs  :bigarmhug:
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Post by: Helen on April 04, 2012, 01:58:47 PM
Such sad news  :'( :'(  Thinking of you and your Dad and sending our deepest sympathy.  Although you miss your mum terribly please give all those extra hugs to Dad as he really needs you right now :bigarmhug:

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Post by: jaybee on April 04, 2012, 02:31:21 PM
So sorry for your loss  :'( thoughts and all best wishes are with you and your family. Tuppence you keep those cocker kisses and cuddles coming, your daddy will be needing them.
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Post by: coopersmum on April 04, 2012, 02:34:24 PM
I'm so very sorry for your loss  Tuppence :'( It must be so very difficult for both you and your Daddy. Hold on tight to each other during this really difficult time. Cooper and I are sending you hugs.
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Post by: lindseyp on April 04, 2012, 05:14:06 PM
Oh Tuppence - I'm so so sorry  :'(
Lots of caring hugs for you & your dad & my thoughts go out to you both  :bigarmhug:  :luv: :bigarmhug:
make sure you give your daddy lots of extra special kisses & cuddles right now  :-*
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Post by: MacTavish Boys on April 04, 2012, 05:18:06 PM
I am so sorry  Tuppence :'( please carry on giving your Daddy lots of cocker cuddles and kisses, he really needs you right now :luv: :luv:
Thinking of you both  :luv: :luv: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Stephanie, George and Hamish xxx
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Post by: wendyt on April 04, 2012, 05:26:32 PM
I'm so sorry Tuppence :'( Thinking of you and your Daddy at this very sad time lots of  :bigarmhug:'s to you both.
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Post by: lisalh on April 04, 2012, 05:26:52 PM
I dont have the words to express how sorry I am to read your news - give Daddy lots of special cocker cuddles as you will both be needing them xxxxx
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Post by: twiceover2 on April 04, 2012, 05:28:37 PM
I am so sorry to hear this, Tuppence.  Our thoughts are with you and your Dad. 
Michelle, Yvonne, Barney and Pippa
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Post by: MegandMolly on April 04, 2012, 05:37:29 PM
So sorry to hear  the news  :'(

Big hugs to you both  :bigarmhug:
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Post by: vixen on April 04, 2012, 05:38:21 PM
So sorry to hear this Tuppence  :'( :'(
You must miss your mum dreadfully.  :'( :'(
Please remember that your dad really needs you right now and you must comfort each other.  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Even though it hurts, try to hide your pain behind a wagging tail and bring a smile to your dad's face.  :luv: :luv:
Sincere condolences to you both for your loss.   :'( :'( :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
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Post by: fiona2 on April 04, 2012, 05:41:54 PM
so sorry for your loss :'( big hugs to you both :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
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Post by: Poppsie on April 04, 2012, 06:39:06 PM
So sorry to hear this Tuppence  :'( :'(
You must miss your mum dreadfully.  :'( :'(
Please remember that your dad really needs you right now and you must comfort each other.  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Even though it hurts, try to hide your pain behind a wagging tail and bring a smile to your dad's face.  :luv: :luv:
Sincere condolences to you both for your loss.   :'( :'( :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

 :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:'s to you both  :luv: :luv: x x x
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Post by: Linz13 on April 04, 2012, 06:53:09 PM
I am so sorry for your loss x
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Post by: ejp on April 04, 2012, 07:05:10 PM
My deepest sympathy to you and your family, I am so very sorry.  :bigarmhug:
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Post by: Poppypuppy09 on April 04, 2012, 07:10:01 PM
Oh Tuppence, I am so sorry for your loss  :'( :'(

Be brave for your Daddy and give plenty of cocker kisses and cuddles  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Geordietyke on April 04, 2012, 07:23:50 PM
So very sorry for your loss, sending lots of  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: and healing wishes to you all
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: ollie nathan's mum on April 04, 2012, 07:32:34 PM
I am so very sorry for your loss, thinking of you and all your family.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Jessie_Pup on April 04, 2012, 07:44:22 PM


So sorry to hear of your loss.  Thoughts with you and your family.
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Post by: Pauline T on April 04, 2012, 07:47:00 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. :'( :'(  Tuppence, your mummy will be waiting for you at the bridge.

Take care of your daddy and give him lots of extra squiges & cockers kisses. Sending lots of  :bigarmhug: to all the family
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Post by: Countrygirl on April 04, 2012, 07:55:48 PM
Oh Tuppence, I am so sorry to hear about your mummy.

Sending all the love I can to you and your daddy.
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Post by: LottieLu on April 04, 2012, 07:57:00 PM
Oh Tuppence I'm so sorry  :'( . Take care of your Daddy at this sad time  :bigarmhug:
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Post by: karen488 on April 04, 2012, 08:00:40 PM
So sorry tuppence. Am really sure that you and daddy can help each other equally to get through it all. Am sure that you 2 loved her more than anyone else in the whole world. Extra cocker cuddles to both of you from Bingley and Darcey. xxx
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Post by: Ben's mum on April 04, 2012, 08:03:13 PM
So very sorry Tuppence, make sure you give your Dad extra cocker cuddles as he will be very sad too.
Sending you both  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: and hope you can be strong for each other
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: bajoleth on April 04, 2012, 08:26:44 PM
So so sorry for your great loss  :'( You will be in my thoughts and prayers, take care and God bless :luv: :luv: :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Jonnydog on April 04, 2012, 08:29:48 PM
So sorry to hear that news. Hugs to you both  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: dal55 on April 04, 2012, 08:34:48 PM
Look after your Daddy Tuppance , he really needs you now
X
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Post by: Megan Ffion on April 04, 2012, 08:51:03 PM
Tuppence, we are so sorry to read about the loss of your Mummy.

Be brave little one and be strong for Daddy as you both need each other more than ever now.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.  God bless

 :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

Love,

Gwyneth Colin and Megan
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Post by: angie68 on April 04, 2012, 08:53:08 PM
So sorry for your loss.  Deepest sympathy to you and all your family right now  :bigarmhug:
Angie x
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Lily Freya on April 04, 2012, 08:56:43 PM
 :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

Sending lots of hugs your way. xxx
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Post by: Ian Wright on April 04, 2012, 08:57:46 PM
So sorry for your loss our thoughts are with you

Ian and Grace
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Post by: Danni and Freya on April 04, 2012, 09:00:06 PM
So, so sorry xxxxxx
 :bigarmhug:
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Post by: janandted on April 04, 2012, 10:58:21 PM
So very sorry Tuppence  :'( be brave for each other  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
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Post by: LilahLoo on April 04, 2012, 11:06:09 PM
So sorry to read this sad news.  I'm sure you will help each other through this difficult time.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: cangrejo on April 04, 2012, 11:17:01 PM
Oh Tuppence, sweetheart I am so, so sorry  :bigarmhug:

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Daddy  :bigarmhug: x
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Post by: revis on April 05, 2012, 06:43:53 AM
Such sad news Tuppence stay close with your Daddy you both need each other so much.
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Post by: bluegirl on April 05, 2012, 08:04:35 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this awful news. Make sure you are an extra good boy atm so you can help your Dad. :'(
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Post by: honeysmun on April 05, 2012, 08:23:54 AM
So sorry to hear this Tuppence  :'( :'(
You must miss your mum dreadfully.  :'( :'(
Please remember that your dad really needs you right now and you must comfort each other.  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Even though it hurts, try to hide your pain behind a wagging tail and bring a smile to your dad's face.  :luv: :luv:
Sincere condolences to you both for your loss.   :'( :'( :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

 :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
thinking of you both
 :luv: :luv: :luv: :luv:
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Post by: bella15 on April 05, 2012, 09:21:03 AM
Sincere condolances to you both xxxxx
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Post by: Holly Berry on April 05, 2012, 09:26:39 AM
Such sad news, so sorry for your loss.

Cocker hugs and kisses will be needed in the dark moments  :luv: :luv:
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Post by: SusieY on April 05, 2012, 09:34:14 AM
So sorry to read your sad news.  Thinking of you both xx
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Post by: eelliott on April 05, 2012, 10:33:35 AM
So sorry to hear your news, our thoughts, prayers and wishes are with you Tuppence and your daddy! 
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Post by: JulieM on April 05, 2012, 12:04:23 PM
 :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: Many, many sympathies, sending our thoughts
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Post by: Wenco18 on April 05, 2012, 12:31:07 PM
So sorry to read this  :'(  :bigarmhug: to you both
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Post by: dizzytrish on April 05, 2012, 12:52:21 PM
So Sorry for you both, Tuppence,  give your daddy lots of cocker kisses and cuddles. :bigarmhug:
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Post by: sarahR on April 05, 2012, 02:39:58 PM
So sorry to hear this. Our thoughts are with you. We are always here for you.
Sarah, Ozzzie and George.
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Post by: Abbi on April 05, 2012, 02:41:01 PM
I'm so sorry to hear your sad news but sure that you will be able to give so much comfort to your daddy at this time.
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Post by: Sarah/G on April 05, 2012, 07:20:45 PM
Thinking of you at this very sad time,
I'm so very sorry for your loss  :'(
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Post by: HeatherandBenjy on April 05, 2012, 08:42:12 PM
There aren't the words to say how very sorry I am  :'( :'( :'(

Tuppence, look after your daddy, you'll both need to be gentle with yourselves and take care of each other.

:bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Ninasmum on April 05, 2012, 08:49:27 PM
I am so sorry for your loss  :'( :'(
Thinking of you both at such a sad time  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
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Post by: JaspersMum on April 06, 2012, 08:43:17 AM
So very sorry for your loss.  Hugs to you both and all the family  :bigarmhug:
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Post by: The crazy hut on April 06, 2012, 09:45:33 AM
So sorry to hear of your loss  :'( 

Look after each other  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
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Post by: tillydog on April 06, 2012, 10:36:01 AM
So sorry to hear of your loss x
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Post by: pipkoi on April 06, 2012, 11:39:32 AM
I'm so sorry to hear your sad new. Lots of special cocker snuggles & kisses for your Daddy Tuppence & in return, I'm sure you will get lots of cuddles & treats
RIP Mummy to Tuppence
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Post by: lindseyp on April 06, 2012, 12:44:35 PM
I think about you & daddy everyday Tuppence & send as maning caring  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: as we can
we're always here if you or daddy should need us  :'( :luv: :-*
stay strong for your dad sweetheart  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: KellyT on April 06, 2012, 12:49:49 PM
So Sorry to read this.
Sending you lots of hugs for this very difficult time. Be a good cocker Tuppence and give you daddy double cocker kisses xx
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Post by: maddycakes on April 06, 2012, 01:45:27 PM
so sorry, daddy needs all your cocker kisses and cuddles he can get, look after each other.

 :bigarmhug:
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Post by: Penelope on April 06, 2012, 02:11:52 PM
So very sorry to hear this.
Tuppence remind your dad that he can come on here any time and talk to us - we all love dogs too and the fact your mum used to like COL will show your daddy that we are a nice bunch.
Take care of your daddy - your mummy would be very proud of you for doing that.
Big hugs to you all. 
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: garygttdi on April 10, 2012, 01:07:14 PM
A big thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

First from Tuppence`s Dad I found all your notes and good wishes so heart warming it rather restored my faith in people , up until l now I had lost faith in people. So many these days appear to busy to care anymore. Cocker owners truly are a very special bunch you should all give yourselves a pat on the back.

You have made my memory of Liz a much easier one to carry. Liz only found the site about 2 years ago but like most once she did she was addicted and would often tell me the stories about lost and found cockers etc. Although she never participated very much she was an avid reader of your stories and notes.

Liz had been in good health until recently and lost her life in a very short fight with cancer of the Liver.

Tuppence!

I iz missing my mummy a lot, I could not eat for a time and would not sleep. Daddy has been feeding my tinned salmon which I must admit I did eat! I ez living with Nana and Grandpa during the day as daddy needs to go to some fink he calls work!
Daddy has told me I will have to go into see the dog doctor for an operation soon as I has lumps and bumps on my tummy. I ez hoping it will not hurt too much as I ez a baby and was hoping me mummy would have nursed me!
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Post by: bluegirl on April 10, 2012, 01:49:19 PM
Life can be very cruel at times, but I hope you, your Daddy, and your Nana and Grandad can stay strong and work through this together.

Good luck at the doggy Drs Tuppence, and I'm sure your Mummy will be watching over you to make sure the doggy Dr makes you better and remember she'll only ever be a thought away because you carry her in your heart always, this goes for your daddy too, he may need reminding too. :'( :luv:
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Post by: honeysmun on April 10, 2012, 02:43:51 PM
Life can be very cruel at times, but I hope you, your Daddy, and your Nana and Grandad can stay strong and work through this together.

Good luck at the doggy Drs Tuppence, and I'm sure your Mummy will be watching over you to make sure the doggy Dr makes you better and remember she'll only ever be a thought away because you carry her in your heart always, this goes for your daddy too, he may need reminding too. :'( :luv:


Wonderful words bluegirl  :'( :luv:
you have said just what I wanted to,
big  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: to you Tuppence and to your Daddy.
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Post by: LottieLu on April 10, 2012, 03:16:12 PM
Just wanted to send some of these :bigarmhug: for both of you. Good luck at the vets Tuppence and really hope your daddy will be checking in here often when he has time to let us know how things are going  :-*. As you both know, we are all always here on COL :005: :luv:
PS I find that a little bit of grated cheese on her dinner helps when Maisie is off her food. xx
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Post by: ollie nathan's mum on April 10, 2012, 03:39:48 PM
Life can be very cruel at times, but I hope you, your Daddy, and your Nana and Grandad can stay strong and work through this together.

Good luck at the doggy Drs Tuppence, and I'm sure your Mummy will be watching over you to make sure the doggy Dr makes you better and remember she'll only ever be a thought away because you carry her in your heart always, this goes for your daddy too, he may need reminding too. :'( :luv:



This really does say it all, keep reminding you daddy to come on COL and say hello, our thoughts are with you.
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Post by: sarahR on April 10, 2012, 04:54:51 PM
Good luck at the vets Tuppence. I'm sure Daddy, Nanna and Grandpa will look after you and give you lots of  extra cuddles when you are recovering. And you can always come on here for cyber hugs and cuddles too.    :D You will be able to help your Nana in the garden when the weather gets a bit warmer and show her how to plant things.
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Post by: waggytails on April 10, 2012, 05:08:46 PM
Life can be very cruel at times, but I hope you, your Daddy, and your Nana and Grandad can stay strong and work through this together.

Good luck at the doggy Drs Tuppence, and I'm sure your Mummy will be watching over you to make sure the doggy Dr makes you better and remember she'll only ever be a thought away because you carry her in your heart always, this goes for your daddy too, he may need reminding too. :'( :luv:


Said much better than I could of, thinking of you all :bigarmhug:
This really does say it all, keep reminding you daddy to come on COL and say hello, our thoughts are with you.
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Post by: Megan Ffion on April 10, 2012, 05:27:39 PM
Hello Tuppence and Daddy. 

Hope all goes well at the doggy doctors for you.

We will all be thinking of you.  Mummy will always be watching over you both.

Lots of   :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: to you both.

Gwyneth Colin and Megan
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Post by: leisl on April 10, 2012, 05:52:00 PM
Oh Tuppence.  I am so sorry to hear your sad news.  You and your dad need each other more than ever.  Big Hug from us.  Thinking of you.
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Post by: cdpops on April 10, 2012, 06:54:46 PM
I am so sorry for your loss  :'( 
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Post by: ejp on April 10, 2012, 06:57:04 PM
Hello Tuppence,
thanks for letting us how you are, lots of luck with the doggy doctor, and ask Dad to keep us posted on your progress.  Nice to hear that Granny and Grandpa are looking after you, and tinned salmon sounds just perfect for when you don't feel like eating  :bigarmhug:  Special cuddles for you Tuppence  :luv: :bigarmhug:
Hope your Daddy knows he can pop by here anytime for a wee visit and a chat, there's always someone around.  (we are all addicted!)
Hugs for you both.
 :bigarmhug:
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Post by: angie68 on April 10, 2012, 07:12:02 PM
Thank you for updating us on how you are.  It's nice to hear that nanny & grandad are helping daddy look after you. 
Good luck at the doggy doctors & keep us posted how you both are doing.
Best Wishes
Angie x
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Post by: Pop-Star on April 10, 2012, 07:16:25 PM
Oh Tuppence :luv: I'm so sorry  to hear about your Mum :'( 
Sending lots of :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: for you and your Dad
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Post by: Bluebell on April 10, 2012, 07:29:01 PM
So glad you came back to COL to read all the genuine kind wishes :luv:
It is lovely you have had your faith restored, and your heart warmed!
Wishing you and Tuppence and his Nana and Grandpa a happier future, and best of luck with the vetranhairyman  :bigarmhug:
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Post by: luckypenny on April 10, 2012, 07:44:57 PM
Such sad news - hope you are all OK and taking some comfort from each other, and from our thoughts for you too.
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Post by: White Bryony on April 10, 2012, 10:13:56 PM
I am sorry I haven't seen this before but I just wanted to say how sorry I was to hear your sad news Tuppence  :'(

Sending you and your dad lots of these  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

Good luck at the Vets, Tuppence, lots of cuddles will make you feel better soon  :-*  :-*
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: 8 Hairy Feet on April 11, 2012, 09:38:21 AM
 :bigarmhug:and :-* :-* :-*
to you both ...
lots of love too
All@8 Hairy Feetxxx
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Post by: SusieY on April 11, 2012, 02:28:20 PM
Thank you for the update - have been thinking of you both a lot  xx
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Post by: Neon on April 11, 2012, 02:34:17 PM
I am so, so sorry to read your tragic story.  You both have each other to cling to during the tough times that lay ahead, but with your love for each other, you will all come through.  Tuppence, I hope those lumps are nothing serious and that you are eating a little more now. Please ask Daddy to keep us informed on how you're doing.   My heart goes out to you all, be strong for each other.  You have many COL members/friends only too pleased to offer you support when you need it.  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
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Post by: twiceover2 on April 11, 2012, 03:14:54 PM
Have been thinking of you both.  I hope all goes well at the vets for Tuppence.
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Post by: wendyt on April 11, 2012, 03:26:56 PM
Thankyou for the update, I have been thinking of you both. Hope everything goes well at the vets for Tuppence, and the lumps and bumps turn out to be nothing to worry about. Sending lots of  :bigarmhug:'s to you both. xx
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Post by: dal55 on April 11, 2012, 07:52:55 PM
I was so pleased that you came back to the site ,as you can see many of us were worried for you and Tuppence.
Please keep coming back and keep us updated with Tuppences progressand of course your well being
Chin up XX
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: garygttdi on May 21, 2012, 11:12:39 AM
Hi all just a short note to update you all on things. Tuppence has now been re-homed with the in-laws up to Derbyshire with my niece. All so far has gone amazingly well. Tupps appears happy and contented having company all the time is all she wants and she now has that in bucket loads.
She has taken to her cancer treatment well so far with no obvious side affects, we have registered her with a local vet so all should be in place when and if we need them. I broke my heart on the way home and needed to stop to wipe the tears several times, but I knew I was doing the best for us all.

She wants for nothing, and has all she needs two nice meals a day (we have put her on Caesar pouches) well why not. And she sleeps with the olds so has all the company she craves. My niece’s cats are pretty wary but tupps could not care less about them which was a real surprise. I will never truly know if I have done the right thing as I do not speak fluent cocker, but I believe she is happy.

Thanks for all your support and kind words it really does help.

Tuppence`s Dad. :blink:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: MaggieR on May 21, 2012, 11:17:36 AM
 :bigarmhug:  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: you are a very, very special person, not sure I could've been so selfless in your position  :luv:  Sounds like Tuppence is having a lovely time, would love to hear how she continues to get on.  :luv:  You take good care of yourself and remember we're always here  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: 8 Hairy Feet on May 21, 2012, 11:56:59 AM
 :bigarmhug:
Same as Lisa...
You have shown remarkable
fortitude in the face of
adversity.
steffxxx
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: maddy74 on May 21, 2012, 12:02:49 PM
Big hugs for you. Seems like tuppence is settling in well. xx
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: aliceandlouis on May 21, 2012, 12:06:23 PM
:bigarmhug:  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: you are a very, very special person, not sure I could've been so selfless in your position  :luv:  Sounds like Tuppence is having a lovely time, would love to hear how she continues to get on.  :luv:  You take good care of yourself and remember we're always here  :bigarmhug:


Could not put my feelings any better than this. 

You are amazing.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Poppypuppy09 on May 21, 2012, 01:03:00 PM
:bigarmhug:  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: you are a very, very special person, not sure I could've been so selfless in your position  :luv:  Sounds like Tuppence is having a lovely time, would love to hear how she continues to get on.  :luv:  You take good care of yourself and remember we're always here  :bigarmhug:


Could not put my feelings any better than this. 

You are amazing.

Lisa has put it beautifully  :luv: Take care of yourself  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Pop-Star on May 21, 2012, 01:10:32 PM
:bigarmhug:  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: you are a very, very special person, not sure I could've been so selfless in your position  :luv:  Sounds like Tuppence is having a lovely time, would love to hear how she continues to get on.  :luv:  You take good care of yourself and remember we're always here  :bigarmhug:


Could not put my feelings any better than this. 

You are amazing.

From me too  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: MacTavish Boys on May 21, 2012, 02:10:47 PM
You are a truly wonderful person for putting Tuppence's needs  first  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: it sounds like she has really settled in well with the inlaws, please keep us updated on her progress :luv: :luv:
Stephanie, George and Hamish xxx
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: SusieY on May 21, 2012, 05:07:39 PM
:bigarmhug:  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: you are a very, very special person, not sure I could've been so selfless in your position  :luv:  Sounds like Tuppence is having a lovely time, would love to hear how she continues to get on.  :luv:  You take good care of yourself and remember we're always here  :bigarmhug:


Could not put my feelings any better than this. 

You are amazing.

From me too  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

And from me  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Ben's mum on May 21, 2012, 08:36:41 PM
You have done the right thing for Tuppence, regardless of the emotional cost to yourself, such a brave thing to do, and to be honest very humbling as I don't know if I could have done the same.

Only need to correct you on one one thing, you must speak fluent cocker - cockers speak to you with their hearts and their eyes and you have clearly understood what she needs at the moment  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: to both of you.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Penelope on May 21, 2012, 09:12:57 PM
 :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Countrygirl on May 21, 2012, 09:49:32 PM
Bless you for everything you have done for Tuppence.  You are a very special person.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: max15 on May 21, 2012, 10:04:00 PM
It sounds like Tuppence is doing really well.  We can only imagine how hard it has been for you but you must know that you have done the very best for her  :luv:

I hope you will continue to keep us updated on how you are both getting on, take care  :bigarmhug:

Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Dan on May 21, 2012, 10:26:13 PM
As everyone says you are a very special person and have done whats best for you both I wish you and tuppence all the very best!
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: wendyt on May 21, 2012, 11:52:19 PM
Bless you for everything you have done for Tuppence.  You are a very special person.
Totally agree.  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: garygttdi on May 22, 2012, 01:46:47 PM
Hi gang thanks for all your kind words and wishes, I just hope Tupps has a good time and does not suffer ,so far fingers crossed all is going OK. Just wanted to say I have found most cocker owner’s special people. I think owners are like their dogs, so we must be all a bunch of loving, caring, soppy people and if so Iam proud to one of you.

Gary.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Penelope on May 22, 2012, 07:01:00 PM
COLers are definitely very special people - I for one would not want to be without their support and words of wisdom in many parts of my life.  I no longer have a cocker, but still come on here every day.  I have 4 other dogs still and one day I will have another cocker when the time is right, but in the meantime I LOOOOOOVVVVVVVEEEEEEE this forum.
Good to see you are still checking on here - stay with us! 
Hope your days are a little less dark and that Tupps is settling well.  Hugs.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Megan Ffion on May 22, 2012, 07:51:34 PM
Gary,


So glad that Tuppence has settled in with her Nan and Grandad although it was another heavy cost to you.  We feel that you have done the right thing for Tuppence and we are sure that you will be able to go and see her.
Take good care of yourself and please remember we are always here for you.

 :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:


Gwyneth Colin and Megan
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: maddycakes on May 22, 2012, 07:54:58 PM
Im sure tuppence will be ok with the in laws and being spoilt rotten, take care of yourself.

 :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: emms on May 22, 2012, 08:46:21 PM
 :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: garygttdi on June 06, 2012, 09:25:33 AM
Hi gang just a short note to update all my friends on COL.

Tuppence ended her days in the arms of loved ones on Friday after a short fight with Cancer (that bloody disease) Sorry!. The Vet came to the cottage were tupps was living and she went very peacefully. Forever missed and a final chapter closes ,crying as I type this, its so hard, still seeing cockers out on walks does help a lot.
Thanks for all your love and support it’s made a big and real difference.

Thank you Gary.
 :'(
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: HeatherandBenjy on June 06, 2012, 09:47:12 AM
I'm so, so sorry  :'( :'( I can't begin to imagine what you're going through right now :bigarmhug:

Tuppence was so lucky to have a Dad who very selflessly put her needs first. Please take good care of yourself and know that we're thinking of you and are all here for you. :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

Run free Tuppence  :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: coopersmum on June 06, 2012, 09:49:31 AM
I'm so very very sorry for your loss :'( My heart truly breaks for you :( Thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve her passing. Rest well little Tuppence, you're with your mum now.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: 8 Hairy Feet on June 06, 2012, 09:50:52 AM
So very sad to read this :'(
Run free Tuppence,
reunited with your Mum
steffxxx
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: aliceandlouis on June 06, 2012, 09:57:52 AM
I'm so, so sorry  :'( :'( I can't begin to imagine what you're going through right now :bigarmhug:

Tuppence was so lucky to have a Dad who very selflessly put her needs first. Please take good care of yourself and know that we're thinking of you and are all here for you. :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

Run free Tuppence  :luv:

Just this really ^^ - sweet Dreams Tuppence and all my thoughts are with you, Gary after all you have been through.  Take care of yourself  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: wendyt on June 06, 2012, 10:05:55 AM
Oh Gary I'm so very sorry to hear about Tuppence:'(  My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Run free Tuppence :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: LottieLu on June 06, 2012, 10:16:42 AM
Gary, words fail me  :'(. Thinking of you. Please stay and share the good memories and the tears too. Take care  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: redlottie on June 06, 2012, 10:17:03 AM
sorry very sorry for your loss - run free tuppence  :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: MegandMolly on June 06, 2012, 10:25:29 AM
So sorry Gary  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Carolynleah on June 06, 2012, 10:32:45 AM
So very, very sorry
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: MacTavish Boys on June 06, 2012, 10:46:58 AM
I am so sorry to hear your very sad news :'( :'( i cannot begin to imagine what you are going through  :bigarmhug:
Run free at the Bridge Tuppence reunited with your Mummy  :luv: :luv:
Stephanie, George and Hamish xxx
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: henryjack1dogs on June 06, 2012, 10:56:07 AM
Oh Gary!!  So sad to read your latest update. :'(

My thoughts are with you at this truly sad time.

Take Care of yourself! x
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: fiona2 on June 06, 2012, 10:56:17 AM
im so so sorry gary
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: maddycakes on June 06, 2012, 11:02:37 AM
Oh my, i am so so sorry, you have been through so much recently, you are such a special person as you put tuppence's needs before yours while your heart was still breaking from the loss of your wife.

Tupps will be with her mummy now, you take care of yourself.  :bigarmhug:

Run free little one  :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: lindseyp on June 06, 2012, 11:29:02 AM
sincere caring thoughts for you right now Gary  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:   I'm so, so sorry  :'(  :'(

Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: max15 on June 06, 2012, 11:31:09 AM
So very sorry Gary, our thoughts are with you at this very sad time :'( :bigarmhug:

Run free sweet Tuppence  :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Ninasmum on June 06, 2012, 12:35:37 PM
I am so, so sorry Gary  :'( :'(
My heart goes out to you at such a heartbreaking time  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Run free Tuppence, free from pain & young again  :angel: :luv:

Stay around Gary, we all care very much  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Holly Berry on June 06, 2012, 12:54:23 PM
So so sorry to hear that Tuppence has gone to the Bridge. Run free, forever young and healthy again  :luv: :luv:

Life must seem so unbelievably cruel at the moment and my heart goes out to you. Take comfort that Tuppence and her Mum are together again. Thinking of you and hope that you will keep in touch  :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Poppypuppy09 on June 06, 2012, 01:12:46 PM
I am so, so sorry  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

Run free at the bridge Tuppence  :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Pop-Star on June 06, 2012, 01:37:57 PM
I am so so sorry :'( to hear that Tuppence :luv: has gone to the bridge.  Forever safe in her Mum's loving arms :luv: :luv:
Thinking of you  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Jonnydog on June 06, 2012, 02:11:14 PM
Very very sorry to hear about Tuppence. Run free wee girlie  :luv:

These are for you  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Pauline T on June 06, 2012, 02:46:40 PM
So sorry to read this. Run free little Tuppence  :luv: Safe with her mummy.

Thinking of you, take care, I hope your memories give you comfort.   :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: waggytails on June 06, 2012, 03:26:40 PM
So sorry to hear tuppence has gone to the bridge, my heart goes out to you. :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Poppsie on June 06, 2012, 04:03:07 PM
OMG another sweet little cocker lost to that dreadful disease  :'( :'( :'( 
Run free little girl now with the angels and resting  :angel: :angel: :angel:

night night little one  :luv: :luv: :luv: :luv: :luv: x x x
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: honeysmun on June 06, 2012, 04:05:45 PM
I'm so, so sorry  :'( :'( I can't begin to imagine what you're going through right now :bigarmhug:

Tuppence was so lucky to have a Dad who very selflessly put her needs first. Please take good care of yourself and know that we're thinking of you and are all here for you. :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

Run free Tuppence  :luv:

These words come from my heart as well
thinking of you  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Tuppence is in mummy's arms now.
god bless sweetheart  :luv: :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Bluebell on June 06, 2012, 04:28:46 PM
 So sorry to read of your update Gary :'(
Take care of yourself :bigarmhug:
Run free little Tuppence, at peace with your mum  :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Neon on June 06, 2012, 05:33:14 PM
I'm so sorry that life has dealt you two horrible blows recently.  I had tears in my eyes when I read your post that sweet Tuppence had to leave, but then I thought "hang on, she's with her beloved Mummy again".  It made me feel a tiny bit better to think the two of them are reuinted and will be happy, young and healthy forever now.  Take care of yourself.  God bless you Tuppence  :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Megan Ffion on June 06, 2012, 05:40:40 PM
Gary, we are so sorry to hear about Tuppence.  Our hearts go out to you and you are in our prayers.   Tuppence is now reuinted with her Mum.  You were a devoted Dad to Tuppence and you will miss her.  Life has dealt you a double blow.


Take care of yourself God Bless we are always here for you.

Gwyneth Colin and Megan xxxxxx
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: White Bryony on June 06, 2012, 05:43:05 PM
So very sorry to hear about Tuppence  :'(  :'(

Sleep tight sweetheart :luv:

Look after yourself Gary xx :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: pipkoi on June 06, 2012, 06:00:59 PM
More tears here to hear this tragic news
Run free at the bridge Tuppence, pain free, forever young & reunited with your beloved Mummy.
Take care of yourself Gary. You have been through so much in such a short time.
Look after yourself & stay in touch.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Ben's mum on June 06, 2012, 07:43:28 PM
So very sad to read this  :'(
Sleep tight Tuppence  :angel: :angel:

Take care of yourself Gary, you have been through so much  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Clover on June 06, 2012, 08:07:37 PM
So sorry to hear more sad news  :'(
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: ejp on June 06, 2012, 08:26:39 PM
Gary, I am so very sad for you, you have lost so much  :bigarmhug: You have done everything right for Tuppence, and put her first every step of the way, huge admiration for you. Run free sweet Tuppence.  :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Countrygirl on June 06, 2012, 08:35:56 PM
I am so very very sorry and feel so sad for you.

Tuppence is back in her Mummy's arms, all well again, both of them.

Thinking of you.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: MaggieR on June 06, 2012, 08:40:45 PM
More tears here to hear this tragic news
Run free at the bridge Tuppence, pain free, forever young & reunited with your beloved Mummy.
Take care of yourself Gary. You have been through so much in such a shor time.
Look after yourself & stay in touch.

Says it all for me  :'(
Please take care of yourself Gary
Run free Tuppence :angel: :luv:
xx
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Mudmagnets on June 06, 2012, 09:16:11 PM
Sorry to read of your bad news.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: revis on June 06, 2012, 09:42:16 PM
So sorry to read of more sad news for you. Tuppence is now with her Mum and they will be looking down on you . Take care of yourself you have been through so much.
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Ebbysmum on June 06, 2012, 10:36:51 PM
So sorry to hear this. Life can be very cruel. I hope you find a tiny bit of comfort in knowing that she is with her mummy and they are together again. You are in my thoughts. I hope you still visit us on here when you have some time. There is always someone about if you are having a bad day. You are not alone. Run free little angel :luv:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: angie68 on June 06, 2012, 11:31:12 PM
So sorry to hear this news.  Run Free Tuppence reunited with your loving mum.
Take care of yourself Gary.
Angie x
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: harleys mum on June 06, 2012, 11:42:16 PM
Thinking of you, sometimes its hard to believe that life can be so cruel - God bless!
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: SusieY on June 07, 2012, 12:20:18 AM
Have been thinking about you and Tuppence a lot and am so sad to read your update

May you take comfort from the fact that you did all you possibly could for your little dog and put her needs above your own - she was so very lucky to have you as her Dad

Run free Tuppence with her Mum again

Please take care Gary xx
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: lisalh on June 07, 2012, 08:02:51 AM
Gary, we have never met but I feel as if I know you through your honest (and often heartbreaking) posts on here, you appear to be a very special person who has gone through an horrendous time yet managed to retain your dignity and compassion. My heart goes out to you over your losses and I hope that one day your memories will provide you with comfort and joy, Tuppence and her Mum have been reunited far too soon but please believe you did everything you could and that you have friends here when/if you ever need us xxxxxx  Run free with the angels Tuppence :luv:


Look after yourself Gary :bigarmhug:
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: jaybee on June 07, 2012, 08:31:22 AM
Gary, we have never met but I feel as if I know you through your honest (and often heartbreaking) posts on here, you appear to be a very special person who has gone through an horrendous time yet managed to retain your dignity and compassion. My heart goes out to you over your losses and I hope that one day your memories will provide you with comfort and joy, Tuppence and her Mum have been reunited far too soon but please believe you did everything you could and that you have friends here when/if you ever need us xxxxxx  Run free with the angels Tuppence :luv:


Look after yourself Gary :bigarmhug:

Perfectly said. I second all of the above.

So sorry for your losses over the past few months. I wish your story had a happier ending. Run free now Tuppence, with your Mum again.  What a lucky girl you were to have your Dad

Love and prayers to you Gary
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: garygttdi on June 07, 2012, 10:05:39 AM
Sorry folks losing the plot tuppence Mum passed away on the 29th March the note was supposed to tell all you guys that Tuppence passed on as well on Friday last. Sorry think I am losing the plot, feels like the final chapter on that part of my life has now closed.
Poor Tuppence you will have a nice long rest now !
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: emma_and_tilly on June 07, 2012, 10:09:06 AM
There's no words I can say, but my thoughts and prayers are with you xxxxx
Title: Re: Tuppence`s Mum
Post by: Helen on June 07, 2012, 10:22:06 AM
so sorry Gary  :-\