Thank you all so much indeed. This is absolutely brilliant. I can see that gathering as much information as possible is the very best thing to do, before making a final decision, and that I was right to investigate fully. It certainly has given me food for thought.
Yes, I am thinking about show cocker, rather than working cocker. My springer was working springer and very, very hard work. He was a full male too, and a bit alpha male, so it was a battle of wills mostly. Plus I did not have him from a pup - he came with lots of naughty habits at 9 months. A very unruly teenager!
I found someone locally with a little girl puppy ready for homing next week and was all enthused to call, but your comments have made me pause a little. Firstly, her advert did not mention KC registered, and from reading your forum, that seems very important. The pups are microchipped, first inoculations and 12 weeks' insurance - so that seemed a plus. But now I'm not so sure...
I fully agree about visiting fairs and talking to breeders there, but I'm always concerned that they will try and sell me what they have. And I haven't seen a puppy yet that I don't fall in love with! (I liked the advice on another member's email, about visiting the pups with Mum, but leaving your purse at home. Excellent advice - my husband wishes I would do the same when I go to the shops!)
Apparently my idea of 2 miles walking a day is not correct. The walk across the fields I do is nearer to 4 miles, so I'm told, and this would be twice a day. Good exercise for me too!
I'm going to keep learning and keep looking, and hopefully, keep talking to people about it. There's never been a better time in my life to give a dog a loving home than now, and I can devote my whole time to it. I would have much preferred to do all the toilet training with a puppy in the summer, but getting the right puppy is more important than season of the year.
I'll keep in touch. Potter