Dear Jane
Goodness me - confusing is right. But I will certainly ask those questions too.
However, I have had another conversation with the breeder today - she is an accredited breeder and was recommended to me by word of mouth of another breeder, who was unable to help as all her litter had been sold. The accredited breeder has kindly sent photos and details of bloodlines, etc., and has been very keen to help. She has also sent me letters from owners to whom she has sold last year. So, I am beginning to gain confidence now. The breeder is happy for us to go and view the puppies any time, but would prefer to wait until 4 weeks if possible, which is fine with us. She is mainly concerned that being so young we might transfer some bugs to them. Again, I thought this another "good sign".
My son (aged 20 and home from uni for the summer) and I have also been to a pet store (Pets At Home) and had a good look for all the things we will need. I came out clutching 3 books: one entirely about Cocker Spaniels, one about Puppy Training and an RSPCA book on General Dog and Puppy Welfare and Grooming. Lots of bedtime reading! We decided to leave other purchases until we have viewed thel litter and listened to the views of the breeder regarding food, baskets/crates, etc.
What are your views on crates? My husband thinks they "look cruel and something you would put a bird in", but I have to say, I disagree with him. I thought they might be helpful at night time to stop wandering and chewing. But of course, I haven't read all the books yet - I could be wrong on that one!
Once again, many thanks for all your help. Can't wait until I am able to help other new members.
Best wishes
Potter