Only just read this Fi,
I hope Tia is bouncing about like Tigger soon, and that your OH's nerves have calmed down.
Katie got out of her harness on a main road within 2 weeks of having her (a woman bent down to pat them and Katie was petrified and backed out of it
) OMG
that frightened the living daylights out of me, and I then carried her home (daren't use the harness and it went straight in the bin).
I must admit that 18mths or so on from that, I am really nervous of taking them both out together on my own.
I hope the hospital help you too