I dont think Im too precious but I do think many dog owners are!!
Our dogs are not allowed on the 'good' furniture but are allowed up on the sofa bed in the dining room (it is covered with fleeces etc).
They are not allowed upstairs AT ALL - thats the cats domain and his safe haven.
We never carry them they have 2 more legs than us so they can carry me before I carry them lol
We dont have coats/clothes for them, they come inclusive with a nice fur coat!
They only have dog food, no human food at all....well except for cheese and sausage for training purposes
However, they get 2 lovely walks a day and if they get wet they get a dry towel down when they come in. They have a vetbed lined crate to sleep in and 2 cosy beds to lie in when we are in the living room with them (as they are not allowed on the sofa's!)
They are very much loved and definately part of the family, we contact the vets if we feel they need expert treatment but not if they sneeze or limp a couple of times!
Compared to some dogs ours are positively spoilt, but when compared to the other extreme they are VERY Hard done by....
I like to think we have got the balance right....they are both happy well adjusted, pretty well behaved pooches who know their place in the pack....they do try it on sometimes..but whose dog doesn't!!
Molly coddled at times I would agree but treated too preciously NEVER!
Cheers
Jane