hi
oh i really feel for you, and such a huge responsibillity on such young shoulders.
i'm fairly young, and have owned cockers for almost 9 years now, and also have 9
cockers.
but i'm extremly lucky that i am at home all day, and all my cockers get idividual attention, one on one training, lots of lovley walks ect.
i'm not having a go at you in anyway, but i don't think people put the homework in before getting a puppy, puppies are no different to babies in many respects, they need attention, socilaistion, stimulation, all family members need to be 100 % committed to a new puppy.in order for it to work, and make life easy for everyone.
puppies are extremley hard work, and need to be taught what is expected from them from day one of being brought home, some vets do puppy parti's that you can take a puppy to, too begin with, then once vaccinations are complete, you can them move up to puppy training classes, and this continues, every day at home for short periods too.training should be fun, and for short periods of a time, and the length of training grows as puppies age.
i feel reading the posts on here, you have had lots of negitive feedback, and really you should be able to come on here for advise and help.
but also you need to sort out some form of training for your puppy. go right back to basic's with him, the puppy is young, and ideal to train him, cockers are and can be a lively breed, they are after all a member of the gundogs, all puppies will play up,and constantley test there boundries, they are puppies, no different to babies, you would'nt turn your back on a baby,we nuture , care and guide them, and this is what a puppy needs too.
i do feel you may have an upward hill struggle with some of your family members, and for your puppy to grow in confidence, to be trained to be a lovleble puppy, a well behaved puppy, then all family members need to be consitant with training.
my heart goes out to you, but get him trained, and you would have a lovely boy in your puppy,it takes time, and you cannot expect miracles, training is a lifetime of training , with being a cocker, mental stimulation, for when he is alone, or for times he has to be shut in a room, although maybe i have'nt read all the postings, but why is he shut in when children are about ?, if hes shut away, this can make a stituation worse, he can be suvervised around children, or maybe have a longline lead on him, and lots of prasie with training treats.
as i said you have to teach your puppy what is expected of/from him.
i'm such a placid person, and have gone through training all 9 of my own cockers, it can be done, and you will have dogs you can take anywhere and be so proud of them.
i REALLY wish you the best with your puppy, PLEASE don't give up on him, i'm sure with guidance and training, things will seem better, but it will take time.
keep us updated.
and i wish you well what ever you decide.
love terri
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