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Offline Xensgirl

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a new puppy with big problems
« on: August 26, 2006, 06:45:55 PM »
I would really appreciate some advice.........I don't quite know how to tell this story, so please bare with me!!

First of all, I have always had dogs - owned and shown Cockers and Weimarners, the latter have judged at Open Show Level and bred a litter.  I hope I have a bit of knowledge!!

I have a Blue Roan bitch called Rio, and have been thinking about another.  I do a lot of work for Weimaraner Rescue, also the RSPCA doing Home Checks and stuff.  From a 'friend of a friend' I heard about a 13 week old red dog puppy with "problems".

I telephoned the breeder, who says she has 15 Dobermans, Rotties and one Cocker Spaniel bitch, who she had a litter from.  The red dog was the last of the litter left.  She has had to move towns very quickly, something to do with her partner, so she has had a lot of trauma.  Although she says she has all these dogs, she seemed to know nothing at all and some of the things shes saying just don't fit.

Anyhow, she brought the puppy over a week ago.  He arrived a very scared, smelly, thin little thing - she picked him up and he wee'd all over her - he was that terrified.

Immediately my Rio started mothering him and playing - he wanted to respond but was very unsure.  She asked me what I thought and not mincing my words, I told her that if I had seen this pup at someone elses house I would say he had been thoroughly thrashed.  She swears this is not the case????

He has papers by the way, and some of his breeding is from very well known kennels.

It just broke my heart to look at him - and so hes staying.  I went over him very gently when she left and he had ear mites so badly that it was like concrete, and also the runs. He had had no injections at all.  Gave him a bath and some food, he was very hungry.

Took him to my Vet the next day, who said he is very small for his age, bad ear infection, also some sort of other infection as some of his lymph nodes are enlarged.  Had his first innoculation also.  That was more than enough trauma for one day, so we came home.

Over the last few days, he has started to come out of himself a bit - will come to me when called now (his name is Denby) and is no longer cowering when approached.  He actually ripped some wallpaper off yesterday and I was pleased!! hes acting like a puppy should.  I am taking him out in the car for little journeys and socialising him with lots of gentle doggy people.

Is there anymore I can do here?  Its going to take me a lot of time, patience and effort to get him right I know - all advice would be very appreciated.......thanks to all the Cocker people out there.  Julie, Rio and Denby.

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Re: a new puppy with big problems
« Reply #1 on: August 26, 2006, 07:48:21 PM »
am surprised your vet vaxed him as he seemed unwell or at least if his lymph nodes were up --- did vet suggest why they were

I think for now gentle socialising is the best way forward (may be start with quietish experiences and work up), but try not to reinforce any shyness/fear by fussing if he gets scared
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Re: a new puppy with big problems
« Reply #2 on: August 26, 2006, 08:05:54 PM »
Oh poor little sausage.  I'm pleased he's found a good home with you, and as he's young hopefully he'll be quick to get over the clearly horrible start he has had in life.  Bless him. :luv:  It's great your other dog is mothering him and showing him love too. :luv:

I can only wish you all the best with him and hope he continues to improve and shred more wallpaper :005:.

My auntie had a rescue Cocker that she got when she was about 18months I think - the story was there were young children who had been a bit rough and so she was a bit timid and didn't like her ears handled.  The reality was clearly somewhat different.  The dog is now 7 years I think - and will still not willingly allow even my auntie to touch her ears, and for months after she got her she was terrified of all men (my auntie is single) and would not go near them and wee on the floor if one approached.  She also weed on the floor if anyone was sat down nearby and absent-mindedly started swinging their legs, or crossed their legs, or stepped towards her - the poor dog had evidently been kicked in a previous home.  Having said that, it took patience, love and time (although your Denby is much younger so hopefully will recover quicker) and my auntie's cocker is the most adorable, affectionate, loving and loyal little angel you could ever hope to meet.

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« Reply #3 on: August 26, 2006, 10:00:26 PM »
Just wanted to say good luck & glad that Denby has now found a happy home.  I would have done exactly the same in your situation.   Words baffle me about these awful people  >:D  If she is some sort of breeder (i say that very loosely) surely the RSPCA should be notified. ??

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« Reply #4 on: August 26, 2006, 11:17:49 PM »
so pleased for denby,finding a loving home after what sounds an awful start to his life.
and rio is helping him settle in too  :luv:
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« Reply #5 on: August 26, 2006, 11:26:05 PM »
aww that story broke my heart  :'( ...thank goodness he is now in a kind home ...well done, hope he recovers well x
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« Reply #6 on: August 26, 2006, 11:27:39 PM »
aww that story broke my heart  :'( ...thank goodness he is now in a kind home ...well done, hope he recovers well x

I feel the same as Sue reading that :'(  Thank goodness Denby found you, sending him lots of love and hoping he gets better soon and goes from strength to strenghth :luv:


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« Reply #7 on: August 26, 2006, 11:57:25 PM »
I am so sorry to hear your story but very pleased Denby has found a good, loving home.
I had similar problems with my Harvey, his breeder had purchased him back from the previous owner and he was six months old when I got him.

He was terrified of the car, any stairs, the back door, the front door, the kitchen, people with glasses and women in general, (to name a few things). He was not house trained and would wee if anyone made any sudden movements. He did not bark or even know how to play.

The breeder I got him from did advise me of all of the above so I knew what I was taking on. She also offered any support that we may have needed. She wanted a good home for him and I honestly believe that it what we have given him. All we have done as a family is love him and be patient.

He is a different dog a year on and almost all of his past has been forgotten (he still has a thing about people wearing glasses. Harvey is a lovely boy; he can’t sit for long, as his tail never stops wagging. I love him dearly and he has been worth all the hard work. My advice is to love him and go with your heart - the rewards will amaze you.

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« Reply #8 on: August 27, 2006, 01:31:29 AM »
What an awful start poor Denby has had.  ph34r

Thank goodness he has you now.  Hopefully he will go from strength to strength now with time, love and patience.  He's very young so hopefully he will bounce back relatively quickly.

I'd love to see a pic of Denby, when you get chance.  :D
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Re: a new puppy with big problems
« Reply #9 on: August 27, 2006, 09:32:27 AM »
Really glad to hear he has found a loving home!! It's awful when  dogs are treated badly!!
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« Reply #10 on: August 27, 2006, 09:49:50 AM »


                     i have to agree with every one else.  well done you

         thank god there are more people like you  :angel:  and us that really care for our dogs than people that don't  >:D

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« Reply #11 on: August 27, 2006, 11:36:58 AM »
Oh poor little sausage.  I'm pleased he's found a good home with you, and as he's young hopefully he'll be quick to get over the clearly horrible start he has had in life.  Bless him. :luv:  It's great your other dog is mothering him and showing him love too. :luv:

I can only wish you all the best with him and hope he continues to improve and shred more wallpaper :005:.

My auntie had a rescue Cocker that she got when she was about 18months I think - the story was there were young children who had been a bit rough and so she was a bit timid and didn't like her ears handled.  The reality was clearly somewhat different.  The dog is now 7 years I think - and will still not willingly allow even my auntie to touch her ears, and for months after she got her she was terrified of all men (my auntie is single) and would not go near them and wee on the floor if one approached.  She also weed on the floor if anyone was sat down nearby and absent-mindedly started swinging their legs, or crossed their legs, or stepped towards her - the poor dog had evidently been kicked in a previous home.  Having said that, it took patience, love and time (although your Denby is much younger so hopefully will recover quicker) and my auntie's cocker is the most adorable, affectionate, loving and loyal little angel you could ever hope to meet.
This little story gave me hope!! thanks

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« Reply #12 on: August 27, 2006, 11:43:09 AM »
It's heartbreaking to hear of such stories where they have celarly been treated so appalingly in a previous home.

At least some get the chance of a new life.

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« Reply #13 on: August 27, 2006, 12:05:38 PM »
Well done for taking poor Denby in.... Hopefully with your love and kindness he will grow up into a great little dog :luv:
I hope he gets over his infection soon, and would love to see some pics!!


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Re: a new puppy with big problems
« Reply #14 on: August 27, 2006, 12:46:34 PM »
Thanks everyone for your replies - its nice to know other dogs have recovered from really bad starts.  Will keep you all updated.