I know there is a very helpful article on this in the sticky threads which I have read, but I hoped to get a few more personal experiences - hopefully good as well as bad!
Dh and I have both had several dogs in our lives, but never from a puppy (and never a cocker). We've been wanting to add a dog to the family for quite a while, and have done loads of research. We have three boys who are also very keen (though this is definitely something I want to do, not giving in to pleading!)
I suppose the thing is that now we are almost there, and I have been spending so much time reading puppy threads, I have got slightly cold feet. I feel totally ready for the toileting, training and other time committments, our life and home can accomodate a dog, but it's the biting that is worrying me now. Will it actually be hard to enjoy the puppy as a family for the first while? One of my sons, who has worked through some speech difficulties, seems to have a particularly strong affinity to animals of all kinds, but I wonder if the special bond I'm imagining he could have with our dog is unrealistic given some of the stories I've read! We've waited til my youngest is almost 4, so at least he is not a toddler and can understand giving the puppy its space, etc. But he is still pretty young.
Can you tell me some positive stories about living with kids and a puppy? Or will you tell me to look for an older dog, or just to wait a bit longer (which would be hard!)?
thanks very much