Sorry nt really here to offer advice, im only new to puppy's myself!! But i want to give you my ear for Sympathy!!!
And your OH of Course, losing an animal is like losing a part of your own.
Was lucky with Alfie, first night was quiet, next couple were'nt even bad - i look back - 5 weeks and think how far we have come from there - i remember it was a hard first week, but 5 weeks on and the arrival of pup two on Alfies third week i have already forgotton how difficult i found it, time passes by so quickly, treasure it!!
How was Purdey when you picked up her, was she the last pup to be taken or the first, was she brought up around lots of other ppl or was she from a Breeders in kennel type atmosphere?
I had Alfie who was bred at someones house but in a converted garage, he did not get much interaction with ppl so he is a bit of a squealer with new ppl at the moment, Honey was brought up in my Aunts home so her arrival was great and she is so confident around new ppl - luckily its rubbing off onto Alfie now.
But in a few weeks time - your be posting a thread saying how easy its become and the nights have got easier i assure you
Enjoy everything you have with Purdey, cherish every second of everyday - like your OH will know about. - Alfie & Honey send slobberly kisses and wagging tails -