I'm so upset. I confronted my family about this and I've come away in tears. I was doing the invite thing onto the sofa, and Ollie went into a state where he just barks and runs around, so I put him into the kitchen for time-out. Then, my brother goes in there. yeah, he didn't say anything to him, but that's not the point. I talked to my parents about it, and that they were contradicting every thing I do. And they just said "I'm the adult, you're the child". Well, I'm the one acting like the adult here, not you. I said that I'd do the training but it won't work if they don't help me, and they were just like "i dunno". Well, thanks for offering any sort of help. They also said that it was a bad idea to get Ollie, now that they see how much work he is. Only me and my mum do anything with Ollie, I walk him on my days off, take him to the park, do off-lead, train him, etc. My mum just takes him for a walk when she feels like it when I'm at college, so sometimes he only get one walk, no training from her, no off-lead, etc. My dad is quite dominant to him, oh and can I say that they hate his barking, so they shout at him to stop? I told them to ignore him, and they are like what good's that going to do? and I was like it'll teach him that it doesn't get him anyway, and they just walked off. My brother doesn't interact with him, and if he does, it's only to get from one room to another, or to tell him off, and he fhas the NERVE to tell me to control Ollie when he gets loose or I'm asking for some help. I feel so alone, and I feel so bad for Ollie. I'm trying to fight for him, but I can't do it. I don't want him to be fearful or aggressive because of what we've done. I sometimes feel like, , I'll leave you to Ollie, and you'll see the outcome of an untrained, abdly behaved dog!!!!! I'm crying whilst writing this. I don't know where to go from here.
By the way, I've always had a good relationship with my family, but I've always been seen as the baby, (maybe because when I was younger, I did act very childish), and they still think I'm going to do it now. Maybe?? Since getting Ollie, it's caused so many agruments. Sometimes, I think, why on earth did we get him? He'll be much happier with another family.