Thanks everyone for your comments. It's nice to know that we aren't alone in having a whirlwind of chaos
Wilbur is now tolerating Elspeth (will lie on the sofa with her, etc), but the biting of his ears, mouth (and more delicate areas
) is making things difficult. How far should we let them sort things out between themselves? Sometimes if she's really hurting him, we feel like we have to intervene - are we right to do this?
She's a very clever little thing and is going to run rings around Wilbur when she's older - and us too, I bet