The actual aggression that i'm talking about i'll try to get a video of. I wouldn't consider it normal as it seems really nasty behavior actually trying to bite me to hurt me.
I'm sure it does seem nasty, and yes, she is trying to bite you (not hurt tho, there is a difference!) but as said, it is all normal and part of a puppies learning curve. It is how puppies learn social behaviour and bite inhibition (and it does end, I promise you
) For some puppies it can also be a bit of a puppy temper tantrum and needs to be dealt with as you would a toddler temper tantrum; calm on your part and distraction or possibly a "time-out". She may be a stubborn and willful puppy so will require extra patience (which I know is hard but it will pay off!)
If you have ever watched puppies playing together there is loads of growling, snarling, biting and fierce faces but they are actually having a ball. But puppies are also not aware yet that this is not an appropriate way to play with humans, so it is up to us to teach them how they
can play with us. That is where distraction comes in "no, we don't play like that, we play like this.."
You can also reduce part of her meal and use that for swapping treats, or break the treats into very tiny pieces too
Can I ask how she's managing to get hold of the nice clothing you mentioned?
I assume that the humans are wearing them
Try throwing a toy or treat when she is hanging onto clothing, or getting or making her some tug toys (an old pair of knotted socks or an old knotted tea towel do well) and engage her with that.
http://www.clickerlessons.com/tug.htmWe always just said 'no' or 'don't bite' firmly and it worked for us. We have had three Cocker puppies and never had a problem with biting. I have read many times that saying no is taboo and I'll probably get told now, but I can only say what has worked for us
There is nothing wrong with saying no or ah-ah
You will get through this!