Millie came to us at 12 weeks, her breeder had kept back her and a little orange boy to choose one to bring on for showing. She was an absolute gorgeous girl, quite well behaved, not a total cockerdile
with some obedience training. She was pretty much house trained, although we did put paper down for a few days.
The best bit, was being able to take her out straight away and not have to wait for vaccinations etc. Socially she was perfect and had been 'intriduced' to the vacuum cleaner, washing machine, postman
, cats, children and big farm machinery.
Jennie was 8 weeks... she didn't take too long to house train and was very quick at picking up obedience - but she had Millie to copy
Hazel was 20 weeks - She hadn't been house trained, socialised nor have any obedience training, she was and still is a cockerdile
... she didn't know her name (although we changed it she didn't really know her original name either
). She probably took 2 months to house train, and I still don't fully trust her
well, I trust her to be left, but when we are in she isn't vocal about being let out, so I worried that if I miss her 'signals' she may pee on the floor. She's been incredibly bright with everything else obedience wise, but can still be quite fearful of strangers and strange / new things. She'd been kept back to show / breed from by the breeder, however due to health issues (both breeder and Hazel) this never happened, and not much was done with her.
All of my 3 came from the same breeder ... so as you can see it really matters as to what is going to happen in those first few weeks.
Perhaps you could visit regularly as already suggested, or ask your breeder if she would have the time to do specific things with the pup so you know some things are being covered? I would think though that if the breeder wanted to bring one on the show, that they would be keyed up on ensuring that things like socialisation and some obedience work was done, as things things are key for showing anyway.